Rita_Poon
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hmmm. which way to go. ask the work friend not to mention anything about the 'sounding out' or tell the boss (your boss, not the works boss) about it but very late in the day on the cusp of a meet. I can see why this cloud won't evaporate. Feign appendicitis or hope for the best? I know neither woman so can't judge what they'd find funny dropping into conversation. I'm trying not to make jokes here, it's almost the setup to one of those 80's high school sitcom things where the confident son has managed to invite two dates to the spring dance.Yeah she is cool, I'm not really worried about her making a scene. I just feel a bit bad for her, cos I don't want to like rub her face in it, and bad for my gf as she isn't aware. I'm not sure if I should tell her beforehand that my gf is coming, or just leave it and try and not make a big deal of it
Her boss is a good friend of mine, and my gf is friends with his partner. He is kind of having a BBQ for his birthday, but it's just work people for some reason, so I fall within work and my gf will be there to stop his partner from getting bored
As you pointed out, it's clearly just a pointless stupid cycle and it's annoying me that it's bothering me.
You'll figure it out. Worst case scenario is it comes to conversation and it's a small matter of work lady didn't know you were happily in a relationship. Happens everyday.