I'm so sorry to hear this.
Not familiar with the specifics of your situation but my love and condolences to you and your daughter.
Having just come through some counselling myself I can only echo what others have said in here. Learning the ways in which your brain processes difficult situations helped me massively to understanding my own situation.
Better times will be on their way I'm sure. But in the immediate term just ensuring you're there for each other is the main thing.
Take care!
