right .. as i said in previous message, if ebay is done correctly you wont have any problems. and any you do have can be resolved quickly !!
as for the psp you sold. firstly you can limit who buys it from you, thus limiting the chances of people bidding and not paying !
you can limit it to this country only (stops pricks from nigeria) also you can stop people with 0 feedback unless you authorise them, also u can stop people who dont have a registered paypal account (this will stop 99% of problems as if they have paypal, they likely arent scammers)
anyway thats the initial problems held back on ..
as for you paying for the items fees. If a buyer does not pay for an item after 7 days you can file a non paying bidder strike on them. this gives them 7 days to pay otherwise you get the money back for fees.
This is always the case ! fact !
as for the selling fee's. without looking at statements i cant comment directly, but i work on ebay and have over 24,000 feedbacks and over 30,000 completed transactions. Our bills are 99% of the time right, and if they are not, ebay will resolve them correctly.
i think ebay is certainly worth a punt, but as with anything, you have to be careful when dealing individual to individual.
We personally as a store dont have all the protections in place. All our items are buy it now and we have many available. If someone buys and doesnt pay, we will just wait 2 weeks and issue a strike against them. It doesnt personally affect us at all . But as an individual i would certainly recommend blocking certain people.
hope this helps