Im telling you, from my experience...its not the best thing to do.
Always best to ask them to message you when they get home so you know theyre home safe (as i wrote before)
You look desperate messaging them so soon after spending time with them...put the ball in their court and see if they serve
Let the wine breathe...
I’ve never been on a first date that didn’t go to a second date so just possibly, Zat, either way works.