That’s not 100% true mate; they’re last 2 updates to the new architecture have completely bricked a lot of HomePods and automations.I’d stick with apple as the control platform as I like their kit anyway. I think there’s less natively supported stuff than with google or Alexa, but as was said earlier anything that’s made for Apple HomeKit just works.
I’d prefer Hue lights over the ikea ones but wanted automated wireless blinds so rather than get ikea blinds and hue lights I compromised on the lights to avoid having 2 bridges.
Equally anything by Nest works better with google home as it’s all owned by Alphabet.
Alexa have probably the broadest supported range of IoT devices but allegedly it isn’t as secure and their privacy agreements / authorisations allegedly looser than apples.
It ultimately comes down to your preferred control and how much you want to spend / how far you want to go with it.
People needing to reset their entire home; the new architecture to support matter has completely backfired.