naming no names

[SuitsBlue]

dont think thats fair, dont think thats consistent.

there are a few others that in my opinion deserve the microscope of ultra-vigilance before certain other/s.

if the board is drawing a line in the sand, so be it, lets have it aired first and lay down a few rules, because as i see it so far, a couple of individuals have been on the shitty end of the wedge.

im not casting aspersions on the way the board is run, i just want to know for me what rules there are, and how they will be enforced.

(i fully understand a busy and sizable board with few mods is difficult to run - i also know that keeping up to date with the feuds and problems as well as agendas of some is beyond a full time job, no condemning the job so far, its admirable that those that cared enough resurrected a place for blues to converse)

 

[Royal Blue Jersey]

can't you name names.
just to clear things up like.




P.S. at the end of all this I'll be happy so long as noone leaves, thats the main thing. We want as many blues to feel welcome here as possible.

 

[SuitsBlue]

it appears there is a problem, larger than any one or ones, the recent explosion in new members is a good thing, but there is an associated issue, as usual, let me get clear headed before i wade into this one any further.

 

[Dylan]

dont think thats fair, dont think thats consistent.

there are a few others that in my opinion deserve the microscope of ultra-vigilance before certain other/s.

if the board is drawing a line in the sand, so be it, lets have it aired first and lay down a few rules, because as i see it so far, a couple of individuals have been on the shitty end of the wedge.

im not casting aspersions on the way the board is run, i just want to know for me what rules there are, and how they will be enforced.

(i fully understand a busy and sizable board with few mods is difficult to run - i also know that keeping up to date with the feuds and problems as well as agendas of some is beyond a full time job, no condemning the job so far, its admirable that those that cared enough resurrected a place for blues to converse)

Other things going on here Suits. It isn't just his retarded attitude in the forum, it also has to do with the way he thinks he can talk to me, Danny, Cal and Welts (well, not so much welts), but he has had it coming for a long time. If it wasn't going to be me, it would have been someone else, soon. I figured it may as well have been me. And it isn't permanent. He has a cooling off period. If he chooses to come back, fine, if not, fine too.

 

[SuitsBlue]

somehow my entire relatively thought out post just got zapped and erased.

am i not happy.

im not in a kosher state to post properly and with due whatever now.

he's the first cool off, thats your decision, whats the grounds for it? and could it have applied to him and others before now?

 

[Dom1878]

somehow my entire relatively thought out post just got zapped and erased.

am i not happy.

im not in a kosher state to post properly and with due whatever now.

he's the first cool off, thats your decision, whats the grounds for it? and could it have applied to him and others before now?

What other members are there? :huh:

 

[SuitsBlue]

numerous and varied.

one doesnt need to be confronted with personal comments to notice personal comments

 

[Dom1878]

I know many people get into heated arguments, but its only 'GoD' who repeatedly argues with the members...

...i thought that anyway...

 

[SuitsBlue]

I know many people get into heated arguments, but its only 'GoD' who repeatedly argues with the members...

...i thought that anyway...

i admittedly do my bit, perhaps more considered and differently worded, but there is a theme elsewhere.

i had no idea tenacity was to be condemned, its not like a plethora of abuse flows from his every post, that every post has a sneaky snidey punchline so as to continually belittle and isolate an individual or individuals.

has he called someone homosexual? (and a host of other trying to be put-downs)
has he engaged in other personal abuse aimed at an individual in a group or on his own?

consistency is the key here, im not excusing his behaviour, but im not overlooking infringements elsewhere either.

(such is the difficult job of the forum owners/runners that every little detail can count)

 

[Dom1878]

i admittedly do my bit, perhaps more considered and differently worded, but there is a theme elsewhere.

i had no idea tenacity was to be condemned, its not like a plethora of abuse flows from his every post, that every post has a sneaky snidey punchline so as to continually belittle and isolate an individual or individuals.

has he called someone homosexual? (and a host of other trying to be put-downs)
has he engaged in other personal abuse aimed at an individual in a group or on his own?

consistency is the key here, im not excusing his behaviour, but im not overlooking infringements elsewhere either.

(such is the difficult job of the forum owners/runners that every little detail can count)

Well thats why the "report Post" thing is there isnt it? so if the members are upset, or offended by a post they can report it to the admins and have them deal with it however they please. The members have alot of power too

 

[SuitsBlue]

Well thats why the "report Post" thing is there isnt it? so if the members are upset, or offended by a post they can report it to the admins and have them deal with it however they please. The members have alot of power too

i dont use it for that purpose, if someone is causing me a trouble, then im prepared to wait till i can capitalise personally.

i wonder what power the person on timeone would have had if he/she had used the report function.

you see, some people can feel that if attacked in thee open have to defend themself in the open.

running to teacher and 'telling tales' is often disparaged as 'ratting'.

such is the hypocrisy of society (nothing to do with you dom)

 

[Dom1878]

i dont use it for that purpose, if someone is causing me a trouble, then im prepared to wait till i can capitalise personally.

i wonder what power the person on timeone would have had if he/she had used the report function.

you see, some people can feel that if attacked in thee open have to defend themself in the open.

running to teacher and 'telling tales' is often disparaged as 'ratting'.

such is the hypocrisy of society (nothing to do with you dom)

- personally i will argue on this site as much as anyone with a point, but i normally jsut give in after a while with people like Ghost Of Dixie, because they are so ademant that they are right...

(PS - Also, never used the report button on anyone - Its a forum where debates are supposed to happen imo)

 

[SuitsBlue]

we all have to stand up for ourselves.

if someone can walk/talk/baby me through a prosess then that fine, after which the education will mean a re evaluation.

tell me im a tit/prick/whatever, because i dont see certain elements of an issue then that isnt likely to bring me round to a certain type of thinking.

 

[daz4matty]

I take it ghost has been banned but can,t find a thread to see why does anyone know.

 

[chicoazul]

To D/D: Youre all bad belters, BAN ME D/D.