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[GhostOfDixie]

the '[Poor language removed] off you [Poor language removed]' micknick seemed in order as there seemed no form of censure from the (weak) leadership.

and an apology littered with 'i don't like you' is not much of an apology.

Teppic, perhaps it would be best to not go down the same route, and refrain from fanning the flames. Take the moral high ground. If I have learned anything, it is that the high ground means your less likely to be [Poor language removed] on by pigeons.

 

[teppic]

Teppic, perhaps it would be best to not go down the same route, and refrain from fanning the flames. Take the moral high ground. If I have learned anything, it is that the high ground means your less likely to be [Poor language removed] on by pigeons.

tbh.. i missed your post as i was pm'ing suits. reading the thread it looks like my post was unnecessary.

 

[GrandOldTeam]

So are you refusing to sort it out? Fair enough, nice to where we all stand here. Not going to cause anymore trouble, just needed to know where i can tiptoe and where I can't.

Tell me how to sort it out.

Cant?

Didn't think so.

There isn't any solution to childish bickering other than time.

 

[monty]

Teppic, perhaps it would be best to not go down the same route, and refrain from fanning the flames. Take the moral high ground. If I have learned anything, it is that the high ground means your less likely to be [Poor language removed] on by pigeons.

so you never doff your cap!

 

[GhostOfDixie]

Tell me how to sort it out.

Cant?

Didn't think so.

There isn't any solution to childish bickering other than time.

Well perhaps the official line on what is accepted and what isn't.

This as far as I'm concerned isn't childish bickering. I want to know why it is acceptable to have a go at people for swearing, but then when I do, its basically me sticking my nose in business that has nothing to do with me.

What would you do? Would you let it go? What happens if I lose it and start swearing at someone. If Micknick has a go at me, am I allowed to tell him to mind his own business? I just need to know where the land lies on this. Its a matter of principles.

 

[GhostOfDixie]

so you never doff your cap!

Depends.

If my hair's a mess than yeah. If not then I take my chances.

 

[GrandOldTeam]

Well perhaps the official line on what is accepted and what isn't.

This as far as I'm concerned isn't childish bickering. I want to know why it is acceptable to have a go at people for swearing, but then when I do, its basically me sticking my nose in business that has nothing to do with me.

What would you do? Would you let it go? What happens if I lose it and start swearing at someone. If Micknick has a go at me, am I allowed to tell him to mind his own business? I just need to know where the land lies on this. Its a matter of principles.

So if you was me right now, how would you deal with the situation?

Don't go off on one, just tell me what course of action you'd take?

Tep is saying I should ban Mick. If I did that, by the end of the year we'd have hardly any members because we're all prone to random outbursts - you more than anyone

You are saying "sort it out"

Well how?

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[monty]

TBF, micknick hardly ever loses it with anyone on here, with the notable exception of you two and occasionaly Suits, why is that. This thread has turned into a Ghost and teppic vendetta, micknick being the target. Mick has been man enough to apologise.............................live with it, the option being, as you have both done in the past when its been a prima-donna moment, post your 'I'm off' threads.

Suits has it spot on, and he has had his moments with mick, what more do you want, moral high ground my arse.

 

[micknick]

Listen Danny et el I am really sorry this has happened- I lost my rag and for that I have apologised- I have apologised for using that language to Teppic because it was out of order. Im being honest in telling you I dont like you what do you want me to do lie?

Ghost this is what you buzz off of, make no mistake I have given you a bit of bashing about bullying and picking on people you may think of as weak. Teppic is a grown man I know this and because of this I know he can fight his own corner. The fact that you are PM'ong each other about this is brilliant, hunt in packs thats what they say isnt it?!

Danny if you think it would be best for me to chill away from here for a bit thats fine but you have to tell me that, not anyone else.

Oh and Ghost what have I got to apologise to you about?! Having a go at someone else?

 

[GhostOfDixie]

Listen Danny et el I am really sorry this has happened- I lost my rag and for that I have apologised- I have apologised for using that language to Teppic because it was out of order. Im being honest in telling you I dont like you what do you want me to do lie?

Ghost this is what you buzz off of, make no mistake I have given you a bit of bashing about bullying and picking on people you may think of as weak. Teppic is a grown man I know this and because of this I know he can fight his own corner. The fact that you are PM'ong each other about this is brilliant, hunt in packs thats what they say isnt it?!

Danny if you think it would be best for me to chill away from here for a bit thats fine but you have to tell me that, not anyone else.

Oh and Ghost what have I got to apologise to you about?! Having a go at someone else?

Mate I just think you have been unfair to have a go at me for sticking up for Teppic. I think fyi we have sent 2 pm's all day.

Maybe there is no apology needed, but perhaps recognition that you have been slightly hypocritical for having a go at me during situations that had nothing to do with you, and not accepting me doing the same back.

I haven't insulted you today, and I don't think you have insulted me. I am not hunting with packs, I'm not targeting you for abuse. I just want it to be known that you need to expect people to pull you up on stuff, just as you did to others, ie me.

The fact that it was in private has nothing to do with it.

Let me ask you this question, if I said some bad things to Monty now, would you step in and defend him? You would and that would be fair enough as you are his friend. So you have to understand it works both ways mate. No offence is intended.

I also have not requested you be banned, I have no problem with the majority of your posts. And I don't pick on people, I don't bully people. That kind of accusation is a bit strong. I may be overly emotional on certain points but that does not make me a bully. But Teppic may be 10ft and built like a brick [Poor language removed] house. But that doesn't mean I think you were wrong for saying what you did.

You have apologised and that's cool. I'm sorry for all the [Poor language removed] I have said in the past, sorry that people think I bullied them, that was never my intention. If they want to make themsleves known I will personally apologise.

 

[teppic]

This thread has turned into a Ghost and teppic vendetta, micknick being the target. .

oh, poor micknick. the victim.


this guy has been pm'ing me to [Poor language removed] off earlier and calling me a [Poor language removed] on the shout box.

bollocks. it's not a vendetta, it's calling a spade a spade.

 

[Welton Toffee]

Crikey. Well I don't really understand what has gone on here. I can't be arsed to trawl through the thread cos I've got loads of coursework to do and I've got man flu. But can't we just all get on? It is nearly Christmas after all

 

[SuitsBlue]

christ almighty.

monty, you are fantastic, but you arent helping. sorry.

danny, i'll pm you because its the only place i feel safe mentioning a couple of things.

ghost, a quote from my pm - "your principal was right, your method was wrong"

teppic, same goes "your principal was right, your method was wrong"

mick, shouldnt be sending pms about with the intent of abusing anyone, he has held his hands up and apologised. YES HE WAS WRONG - mick, you were wrong.

you have apologised, it isnt the first time you have been man enough to accept your wrongdoing and try to put it right.

this didnt need to get this far.

i do not agree on pursuing a pound of flesh - thats my job with [Poor language removed] that threaten me with the police and isp action because i object to an irish individual/s being called 'stupid inbred mick [Poor language removed]'.

this fall out is [Poor language removed] all compared to what can be found out there in internet land.

can we get past in now please.

lets take a breath, 5 minutes, a cup of tea, then try and patch up some of the problems instead of tearing strips off one another.

Please

 

[Bainsey]

this is pathetic why cant blues just get on without lowering themselves to childish jibes.

 

[micknick]

Mate I just think you have been unfair to have a go at me for sticking up for Teppic. I think fyi we have sent 2 pm's all day.

Maybe there is no apology needed, but perhaps recognition that you have been slightly hypocritical for having a go at me during situations that had nothing to do with you, and not accepting me doing the same back.

I haven't insulted you today, and I don't think you have insulted me. I am not hunting with packs, I'm not targeting you for abuse. I just want it to be known that you need to expect people to pull you up on stuff, just as you did to others, ie me.

The fact that it was in private has nothing to do with it.

Let me ask you this question, if I said some bad things to Monty now, would you step in and defend him? You would and that would be fair enough as you are his friend. So you have to understand it works both ways mate. No offence is intended.

oh, poor micknick. the victim.


this guy has been pm'ing me to [Poor language removed] off earlier and calling me a [Poor language removed] on the shout box.

bollocks. it's not a vendetta, it's calling a spade a spade.

You two really have a got a bone that you wont let go of havent you?! Obviously my apology hasnt been accepted but leave Monty out of it please.

Tell me both what do you want me to do?