Sorry my mistake, you want general settings, then miscallaneous options and its in there.
still dont see it
General Settings: Norwegian Cow
Login & Privacy
vCard Download:
Allow vCard Download
Don't allow vCard download
You may choose to allow other users to download a vCard containing your email address and username.
If you want to keep your email address private, do not allow vCard downloads.
Messaging & Notification
Receive Email:
Receive Email from Administrators
Receive Email from Other Members
Receive Friendship Request Email
From time to time, the administrators and/or other members may want to send you email notifications or messages. If you do not want to receive email from certain people then you may disable the options here
Default Thread Subscription Mode:
When you post a new thread, or reply to a topic, you can choose to automatically add that thread to your list of subscribed threads, with the option to receive email notification of new replies to that thread.
Private Messaging
Private Messaging:
Private Messaging on
Private Messaging off
This forum features a private messaging system, which allows members to send messages to one another privately.
If you do not want to send or receive private messages, you may disable the private messaging system.
Receive Private Messaging:
Only from Contacts and Moderators
From all members
You may limit the receipt of private messages to just moderators and your contacts. Other members who attempt to send messages to you will be told that you have disabled private messaging.
Email Notification of New Private Messages:
Receive Email Notification of new Private Messages
Don't receive Email Notification of new Private Messages
The forum can send a message to your email address to inform you when someone sends you a private message.
New Private Message Notification Pop-up:
Show New Private Message Notification Pop-up
Don't show New Private Message Notification Pop-up
If you are browsing the forums when you receive a new private message, the system can pop-up a notification box informing you of the new message.
Sent Private Messages:
Save a copy of sent messages in my Sent Items folder by default
Don't save a copy of sent messages
When sending private messages the forum can make a copy of the message in your Sent Items folder.
Visitor Messaging
Visitor Messaging:
Visitor Messaging on
Visitor Messaging off
This forum features a visitor messaging system that allows members to send messages to one another publicly. If you do not want to receive visitor messages, you may disable the visitor messaging system.
Visitor Messages Limit:
Limit usage of Visitor Messages to Contacts and Moderators
Don't limit usage of Visitor Messages
You may limit the usage of your visitor messages to just moderators and your contacts.
Enable notifications for new thumbs on your content?
Receive notifications
Thread Display Options
Visible Post Elements:
Show Signatures
Show Avatars
Show Images (including attached images and images in code)
You have the option to show or hide various elements of messages, which may be of use to users on slow internet connections, or who want to remove extraneous clutter from posts.
Thread Display Mode:
Here you can choose the display mode for threads. For a full explanation of the modes, please view this help page.
Number of Posts to Show Per Page:
Use this option to set the number of posts to show in a thread before splitting the display into multiple pages.
Default Thread Age Cut Off:
You may specify a time period from which to display threads. Threads older than the age you specify will not be shown.
Date & Time Options
Time Zone:
All timestamps displayed on the forums can be automatically corrected to show the correct time for your location in the world. Simply select the appropriate time zone from the list below.
DST Correction Option:
In addition, you may set the appropriate option to allow for daylight savings time in your part of the world.
Start of the Week:
Different parts of the world traditionally use a different day as the start of the week. Select the appropriate day for your region here, in order to have the calendar appear correctly.
Miscellaneous Options
Message Editor Interface:
Enhanced Interface - Full WYSIWYG Editing
Basic Editor - A simple text box
Standard Editor - Extra formatting controls
When posting messages to the forums or other members, there are three interface types available to you. The simplest of these is a simple text box, while the last is a fully-fledged WYSIWYG editor, which allows you to format your text as you want it and see the results immediately.
Depending upon the capabilities of your web browser, you may not be able to use all of these options. If you experience problems when posting messages, try switching to a different interface type.
Forum Skin:
There is more than one skin in which you can view the forums. If you would like to switch to a different skin, select it from this list.
Please note that some forums here may override your skin choice temporarily.
Enhanced Attachment Uploading:
Enhanced Attachment Uploading on
Enhanced Attachment Uploading off
The forum features an enhanced attachment uploading system that allows you to reuse existing attachments via a drag and drop interface.
Depending upon the capabilities of your web browser, you may not be able to use the enhanced system. If you experience problems with the interface, try disabling this option.
User Customizations:
Show User Customizations
Hide User Customizations