In other words what? I don't have a copy of the rules handy, but feel free to post the appropriate rule here yourself. The one that supports Probert's view that Benteke's use of both arms to climb over the Reading defender was of insufficient force to constitute a foul. I won't blame the referee in the matter of Coate's foul on Jagielka because I don't think he actually saw it.
I'm coming around to the thought that you haven't seen either of them.
With regard to your presumably rhetorical question about the decision to give the first penalty in the Arsenal - WBA match.
Look at it again and ask yourself. Why did Carzorla jump off the ground when the most instinctive action had he been kicked would have been to keep his right foot on the ground? The fact is that there was little, if any contact and Carzorla dived. Another shocking decision, don't you think?