It definitely depends on whose dangly parts lol
I sure I'm stating the obvious but my sense it that, as a stereotype, women see a given man they are attracted to as a "whole package", so any weird dangly part is overlooked for the sake of the enjoying total person. Men, on the other hand, compartmentalize a woman into pieces and can be attracted solely to a given physical part of a woman and can even focus on a perceived "flaw" of this part for the sake of disregarding the total person.
But let's get back to ogling over men and women in the respective "fit" threads...