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I have read all your posts this morning and like everyone I am appalled at your former partners behaviour and clearly this is a relationship.which is of no benefit to you and your daughter.
Unless I missed it you have made no mention of legal representation or advice.
I retired as a solicitor more than 10 years ago and ots many years since I practiced in family law but I am fairly certain given your explanation of recent and historic events that
1. You would be able to get a emergency injunction to remove him from the house and prevent him returning and
2. Subject to your financial position that legal aid/ public funding will be available to pay the legal bill.
My sincere advice is to get in touch with a solicitor who specialises in this are of law as a mayer of urgency.
My very best wishes.
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Harryflashman
Player Valuation: £60m
I don’t want to try and give any advice halfway through a day that started early but everyone I’d hear for you and are listening , you’ve clearly already started taking steps , you’ve recognised his behaviour isn’t normal, that no woman should have to go through it and you are looking to do the best for you and your daughter .
There are certainly people out there who will help you as much as there are on here . If Posting on here helps then you make sure you do it and anything any of us can do to help whether its those qualified to offer advice or helping find others that can I’m sure we all will .
Finally I’m so sorry to hear your story
There are certainly people out there who will help you as much as there are on here . If Posting on here helps then you make sure you do it and anything any of us can do to help whether its those qualified to offer advice or helping find others that can I’m sure we all will .
Finally I’m so sorry to hear your story
The local domestic violence unit / family support unit, within the police, would be able to start the ball rolling on this and can usually put the victims in touch with the right solicitors too, as they quite often all work together as a multi agency partnership.
As @Twinkletoes123 has said there, it’s not just a case of moving out, there’s a myriad of things that tie the mother and children to the house:
Finance, schools, family etc
Agreed. A specialist solicitor can help with all those things.
If it helps to post don’t worry about whether it is very clear or not - we’ll figure it out one way or another and in any case @COYBL25 is well skilled at translation
Sometimes just typing AAAARRGGHH or some such can help release some bottled up tension x
Harryflashman
Player Valuation: £60m
Yeah absolutely spot on the specialist Dv unit , or whatever umbrella name they go under now could probably suggest the appropriate solicitors or at least those experienced. That said if you want to avoid police contact there will be support organisations like womens aid , someone safety units and various helplines . Usually the police website will have links as well.
Sassy Colombian
Member: Team PoP
Merry Christmas to all the Blues that visit this thread. It has been a tough year for many of you here but know that you are not alone in this fight, we are here for you too! Life can at times feel like a major snowstorm, so bitter and numbing but at some points it has to melt away. Here's hoping that next year is a better one and may those struggling can finally see the sunshine coming over the horizon. Sending a warm hug your way. ?
Sassy Colombian
Member: Team PoP
Dear @Twinkletoes123 , you and your daughter deserve so much better. I’m so sorry you are having to deal with this sort of anxiety on a day that should be joyful and relaxed. I hope you can get out of this toxic marriage ASAP because it seems this man is deteriorating your health. Many people here have already given you very good advise, so my post is just meant for support and to let you know that we care about you and your wellbeing ?
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What a horrible situation you're in and I really hope you manage to extricate yourself from it as soon as possible. Does your partner know that you post on here? Just wondering if his controlling extends to invading your digital privacy as well?
coollino
Player Valuation: £80m
Don't ever think twice about posting what you want to say, especially in this thread. You need somewhere/something where you can just talk at
Maybe the COViD or Rafael thread tho lol
He knows I’m a member of a forum, don’t think he knows I post in it though.
roydo
in memoriam - 1965-2024
Not being alarmist, but would he know your avatar, and/or your user name?
Just want to make sure what you say in here doesn't come back in any way. Would it be perhaps a good thing to make this thread members only?
Maybe I should change my avatar. Thank you x