Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

[coollino]

Well the good news may not have lasted long, gf has been passing clots so we have been told to go A&E.

 

[FC sexy xxx]

Well the good news may not have lasted long, gf has been passing clots so we have been told to go A&E.

My best wishes to you both mate

 

[chrismpw]

I've met the most amazing girl but we have on and off for the past few months because I am afraid to commit. I wish I could because she is so much my soulmate s what is my issue? Advice, please!

Youre afraid if it breaking down and causing disruption in your life if it fails? Yet it sounds as though it will fail if you don't commit.

Soulmates are hard to find. Very hard.

In a good relationship you get out what you put in. If you don't commit, neither will they on time. Some people are content with this, others not.

 

[chrismpw]

Well the good news may not have lasted long, gf has been passing clots so we have been told to go A&E.

Best wishes to you both. Hope its nowt serious.

 

[goodisonopheliac]

It's not my fault we lost. Dammit. It's not my fault.

 

[efcforever]

Well the good news may not have lasted long, gf has been passing clots so we have been told to go A&E.

Sorry to hear this mate. I hope all is well.

 

[efcforever]

It's not my fault we lost. Dammit. It's not my fault.

Ofcourse it isn't. We lost because Spurs are a very good side and we are a work in progress. In the long run today doesn't matter.

 

[goodisonopheliac]

Ofcourse it isn't. We lost because Spurs are a very good side and we are a work in progress. In the long run today doesn't matter.

It's the whole 'if you accept mediocrity and you aren't running on the pitch, or protesting against Silva, it's your fault the club are crap, demand excellence NSNO raaargh' thing. I can't physically affect what Everton do, but when I come on here and see threads like that Yank bloke's I start thinking it is somehow my fault, and that's dangerous, because I've had delusions before where I think I have godlike powers and it's gotten me into trouble. I've posted here before.

 

[efcforever]

It's the whole 'if you accept mediocrity and you aren't running on the pitch, or protesting against Silva, it's your fault the club are crap, demand excellence NSNO raaargh' thing. I can't physically affect what Everton do, but when I come on here and see threads like that Yank bloke's I start thinking it is somehow my fault, and that's dangerous, because I've had delusions before where I think I have godlike powers and it's gotten me into trouble. I've posted here before.

Alot of what is posted on GOT after defeats like today is knee-jerk. People are frustrated and venting about it. The best thing us fans can do is be patient and keep supporting the team. X

 

[goodisonopheliac]

Alot of what is posted on GOT after defeats like today is knee-jerk. People are frustrated and venting about it. The best thing us fans can do is be patient and keep supporting the team. X

My second team are Sheff Wed and they're doing far, far worse than Everton are.

I'm also starting to have thoughts about certain people on the team that are starting to really frighten me. It was the same about Martinez 2 years ago. And one of them is Pickford and he's only young and he's got a kid on the way. I'm ashamed of myself. It's just a game.

ETA:

If our fanbase as a largely collective unit stop accepting mediocrity then the press would be forced to report on the anger of why the fans are fed up and maybe just maybe the ownership will take this on board especially with us moving to a new stadium in which a united fanbase is essential in it being a successful transition.

Sadly too many fans put up with Kenwright, with the expected losses comments and mentality, with the mid table manager appointments.

Heck some of our fans really wanted Unsworth to get the managers job last season what more proof is needed that we really will put up with mediocrity?

This is what I mean

 

[efcforever]

My second team are Sheff Wed and they're doing far, far worse than Everton are.

I'm also starting to have thoughts about certain people on the team that are starting to really frighten me. It was the same about Martinez 2 years ago. And one of them is Pickford and he's only young and he's got a kid on the way. I'm ashamed of myself. It's just a game.

ETA:

This post makes me wonder if I should go into the changing room with a handful of pills and threaten Silva that I'll take them all if the team don't win.

You can't help how you feel. The good thing is that you recognise these feelings are unhealthy.

Distraction usually helps. Is there anything you can do to take your mind off the game?

 

[goodisonopheliac]

I'm making tea. I've also gone on Twitter hiatus. I edited my post cos I worried it might trigger people.

 

[coollino]

Sorry to hear this mate. I hope all is well.

Thanks, back to the emergency pregnancy unit tomorrow but it has start to subside. Just hate how useless I feel.

 

[Frang]

Thanks, back to the emergency pregnancy unit tomorrow but it has start to subside. Just hate how useless I feel.

stay strong mate x

 

[goodisonopheliac]

Well the good news may not have lasted long, gf has been passing clots so we have been told to go A&E.

Oh no! How is she? Is she OK?