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Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

BluePaul86 said:
I went on a date with a girl a few months back. We met online. Turned out she was a big Evertonian who just so happened to have a season ticket not far from me. Unfortunately the date didn't go well and she said she wasn't interested in me romantically and wanted to stay friends. We text for a bit but then she just stopped completely and then noticed she blocked me on facebook and presumably my number as she's never text me since. I've had a few experiences like this and normally it takes a couple of months to get my head straight and forget about it. This is different however as there's every chance one day I'll bump into her at the match and it's affecting my match day experience. On one hand i don't want to see her as it'll bring back what I'm missing out on as I really liked her but on the other hand I have this stupid voice in my head saying that if I do bump into her, we might chat and that might make her want to get back in contact with me.
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To be honest, mate, the way she just went off the radar/blocked you suggests she isn’t the girl you liked so much.

Forget her and look forward to finding someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve!
 
coollino said:
After days of feeling better, my partner just finished her miscarrage in our local with all of our friends. She felt a lot better today so wanted to get back into the real world but I guess it is because the work has been done. After having one at the end of August I think he is probably right about it being one and not something else.

It was awful, feel numb but in an odd way as well was being sad, she looks the most relaxed that I have seen on the last week. The pain of not knowing seems to have lifted. We are at my parents now and they are looking after her
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So sorry to hear this, mate.

Sounds like you both have good support around you which is crucial at a time like this.

Stay strong and I have everything crossed for better times ahead for you both.
 


Merry Christmas all!

I’m certain there’ll be a few feeling the pressures of the day and/or feeling lonely and down.

I’ll be bobbing on at various points through the day and am always up for a chat (though I’ll be talking broken biscuits by this evening, I’m sure...). Please don’t feel like you have to suffer in silence or that others are too busy, etc, to chat. Start a convo in here or PM if you’re more comfortable.

Take care, all!
 
I think Christmas day is crap. I've seen my 13 year old daughter for 4 hours yesterday and only 3 hours today basically because my lying cheating ex wife is dictating things along side my ex mother in law who because she is a lazy arse sod decided that they were sitting down for there dinner at 1530.
I'm so fcuking angry and id love to smash my ex father In law straight in the face too. The pair of them are helping my ex wife cover up her lies and domestic abuse. I fcuking hate the selfish rats.
 
David09 said:
I think Christmas day is crap. I've seen my 13 year old daughter for 4 hours yesterday and only 3 hours today basically because my lying cheating ex wife is dictating things along side my ex mother in law who because she is a lazy arse sod decided that they were sitting down for there dinner at 1530.
I'm so fcuking angry and id love to smash my ex father In law straight in the face too. The pair of them are helping my ex wife cover up her lies and domestic abuse. I fcuking hate the selfish rats.
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Hey mate,

I was thinking of you earlier because this was bound to be a difficult day for you, even aside from all of that nonsense.

I realise it’s far easier said than done but you can’t risk reacting to that stuff in a way that will scare/upset your daughter or even that will give the others ammo to try to turn her against you.

Be as grateful as you can for the hours you saw her and just battle through as best you can. Again, easy for me to say, but it WILL get better/easier for you.
 
Through all my dark days , this has been pretty damn decent. Seeing my estranged family happy , helps me to realise there are better days out there for me.
Been a long journey , and have shared parts of it on here , but with my impending move to Cumbria in the new year and a new chapter beginning , there is indeed a bright light at the the end of this very long and dark tunnel.
 
Brett Angell Delight said:
Hey mate,

I was thinking of you earlier because this was bound to be a difficult day for you, even aside from all of that nonsense.

I realise it’s far easier said than done but you can’t risk reacting to that stuff in a way that will scare/upset your daughter or even that will give the others ammo to try to turn her against you.

Be as grateful as you can for the hours you saw her and just battle through as best you can. Again, easy for me to say, but it WILL get better/easier for you.
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She would happily of sat watching the jungle book movie with me but new she had to go home. She will literally relax and have fun with everyone but she is like piggy in the middle just now.
It's to late really because just by covering my wife's lies up it has turned my daughter against me.
 

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