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For me anyway mate the thing that affects me more then anything is relationships.Hope everyone has had a nice Christmas, mine was pretty quiet and uneventful but I'm going out tomorrow and plan to make up for it (nothing mad, just a laugh). My situation has sort of plateaued and I'm unsure what to think and what the best course of action is going forward.
Me and the lady I spent a lot of time talking too are still doing just that, talking over the phone and through texts every day even about random things. I've asked her to physically meet up for a date of sorts a couple of times but it has yet to happen. She did tell me she has told a relative about me and the said relative told her they'd be willing to babysit her child so she can make plans with me, I was pleased to hear that but that was about 2 weeks ago now. Nothing has come up since and I haven't pushed the issue to avoid sounding needy.
The stone cold truth is though is I'm starting to get tad fed up with the whole thing to be honest. We've been interacting daily for nearly a month now but nothing has transpired and some of our chit-chat can be really boring, least for me. I'll get messages from her and not even feel like replying because it's not interesting, we don't have an awful lot in common interest of personality wise. Maybe we actually do but how am I supposed to discover that if we're never going to physically spend any time together? It's been silent on that for weeks and I'm at point where I'm not going to be the one who brings it back up.
Part of me thinks I should just pull the plug because if my heart's not in now it likely never will be and I really shouldn't waste her's or my own time. I don't want to be a bad guy but I also don't want to be strung along or set myself up for a fall like I've done previously. The way things are going though, it's really not something I feel like chasing, that's being totally honest. I don't even think this will be a case of her maybe just testing me because I'd understand and respect that given her situation. She's always the first to message me in the mornings, she's called me to talk more than I've called her and she's told relatives and friends about me when I've revealed nothing about her to anyone other than on here. Maybe it's all actually just an eye-opener to the fact this isn't something to pursue after all because other than physical attraction there's not a lot there.
I dunno, I'll give it a bit longer and see what happens. Hope everyone is planning on having a great 2019, or at least a better year than this one. Always around if someone would like to talk.
I do. Posted that myself before Christmas
This. Instagram is notorious for it - a lot of people on there are full of it and/or paid to pretend they have amazing lives.
Same, I rarely go into the Everton section, and not just because my favourite player is Pickford and he's the current whipping boy.
I know exactly what you mean there. I just let it wash over me now. I get grumpy when we lose, but my passion and anger doesn't need to spew out here. At the end if the day, we can't compete with the cheque book parade, so you just have to take it in the chin and enjoy the ride.