If you had a nice time and you feel sure she’d have stayed if it was up to her, she’s not against you mate!!
Your relationship with her seems all you have any control of, here, so focus on that and not on the stuff that’s winding you up.
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If you had a nice time and you feel sure she’d have stayed if it was up to her, she’s not against you mate!!
Your relationship with her seems all you have any control of, here, so focus on that and not on the stuff that’s winding you up.
chrismpw
Player Valuation: £70m
So sorry pal.
Wasn't really looking forward to this time of the year. But had a good day out home for the dinner and that.
Back home on my own now but I'm not not bad. Home alone 2 is keeping me goin
Hope everyone is Doin well.
Back home on my own now but I'm not not bad. Home alone 2 is keeping me goin
Hope everyone is Doin well.
Plenty of blues to support you at a very tough time for you and your partner mate.
I can't begin understand your hurt right now. Good luck with everything.
Frang
Player Valuation: £70m
sending good wishes mate. x
coollino
Player Valuation: £80m
Thanks both. We've had a surprisingly good day. Back to the hospital tomorrow though
coollino
Player Valuation: £80m
Thank you mate
The exact same thing happened to one of my best mates misuss, they`ve now got two beautiful daughters.
It`s horrible mate, made even worse by it being this time of year, but hopefully like my mates, the future will bring you good things x.
Look after your missus and try to stay positive for her x
coollino
Player Valuation: £80m
Thanks.
Sure it will be all ok in the end and trying it to think about if it will happen again. Going to have a bit of à longer break this time though.
After such a rubbish Christmas day it was a great day today as I went to the match. Everton fans were brilliant and I loved having a good sing song.
I need to learn the new Richarlison song though.
The best thing about today though was seeing Richarlison setting an example to other players and giving his top to the crowd. Others then followed and mina in particular and others were amazing.
It's nice sometimes to see simple kindness.
I'm seeing my daughter now tomorrow.
I've blocked my wife in my phone to today as I'm really struggling with it all and I really don't no what else to do.
I need to learn the new Richarlison song though.
The best thing about today though was seeing Richarlison setting an example to other players and giving his top to the crowd. Others then followed and mina in particular and others were amazing.
It's nice sometimes to see simple kindness.
I'm seeing my daughter now tomorrow.
I've blocked my wife in my phone to today as I'm really struggling with it all and I really don't no what else to do.
Good to hear you enjoyed the game and managed to get your mind off things for a bit.
I think it’s a good idea to block out the negativity, as long as you’re not depriving yourself of a means of contacting your daughter (or arranging access) in doing so.
Have fun today!
I'm so sorry. Love to you both x
Hope everyone has had a nice Christmas, mine was pretty quiet and uneventful but I'm going out tomorrow and plan to make up for it (nothing mad, just a laugh). My situation has sort of plateaued and I'm unsure what to think and what the best course of action is going forward.
Me and the lady I spent a lot of time talking too are still doing just that, talking over the phone and through texts every day even about random things. I've asked her to physically meet up for a date of sorts a couple of times but it has yet to happen. She did tell me she has told a relative about me and the said relative told her they'd be willing to babysit her child so she can make plans with me, I was pleased to hear that but that was about 2 weeks ago now. Nothing has come up since and I haven't pushed the issue to avoid sounding needy.
The stone cold truth is though is I'm starting to get tad fed up with the whole thing to be honest. We've been interacting daily for nearly a month now but nothing has transpired and some of our chit-chat can be really boring, least for me. I'll get messages from her and not even feel like replying because it's not interesting, we don't have an awful lot in common interest of personality wise. Maybe we actually do but how am I supposed to discover that if we're never going to physically spend any time together? It's been silent on that for weeks and I'm at point where I'm not going to be the one who brings it back up.
Part of me thinks I should just pull the plug because if my heart's not in now it likely never will be and I really shouldn't waste her's or my own time. I don't want to be a bad guy but I also don't want to be strung along or set myself up for a fall like I've done previously. The way things are going though, it's really not something I feel like chasing, that's being totally honest. I don't even think this will be a case of her maybe just testing me because I'd understand and respect that given her situation. She's always the first to message me in the mornings, she's called me to talk more than I've called her and she's told relatives and friends about me when I've revealed nothing about her to anyone other than on here. Maybe it's all actually just an eye-opener to the fact this isn't something to pursue after all because other than physical attraction there's not a lot there.
I dunno, I'll give it a bit longer and see what happens. Hope everyone is planning on having a great 2019, or at least a better year than this one. Always around if someone would like to talk.
Me and the lady I spent a lot of time talking too are still doing just that, talking over the phone and through texts every day even about random things. I've asked her to physically meet up for a date of sorts a couple of times but it has yet to happen. She did tell me she has told a relative about me and the said relative told her they'd be willing to babysit her child so she can make plans with me, I was pleased to hear that but that was about 2 weeks ago now. Nothing has come up since and I haven't pushed the issue to avoid sounding needy.
The stone cold truth is though is I'm starting to get tad fed up with the whole thing to be honest. We've been interacting daily for nearly a month now but nothing has transpired and some of our chit-chat can be really boring, least for me. I'll get messages from her and not even feel like replying because it's not interesting, we don't have an awful lot in common interest of personality wise. Maybe we actually do but how am I supposed to discover that if we're never going to physically spend any time together? It's been silent on that for weeks and I'm at point where I'm not going to be the one who brings it back up.
Part of me thinks I should just pull the plug because if my heart's not in now it likely never will be and I really shouldn't waste her's or my own time. I don't want to be a bad guy but I also don't want to be strung along or set myself up for a fall like I've done previously. The way things are going though, it's really not something I feel like chasing, that's being totally honest. I don't even think this will be a case of her maybe just testing me because I'd understand and respect that given her situation. She's always the first to message me in the mornings, she's called me to talk more than I've called her and she's told relatives and friends about me when I've revealed nothing about her to anyone other than on here. Maybe it's all actually just an eye-opener to the fact this isn't something to pursue after all because other than physical attraction there's not a lot there.
I dunno, I'll give it a bit longer and see what happens. Hope everyone is planning on having a great 2019, or at least a better year than this one. Always around if someone would like to talk.
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Hope everyone has had a nice Christmas, mine was pretty quiet and uneventful but I'm going out tomorrow and plan to make up for it (nothing mad, just a laugh). My situation has sort of plateaued and I'm unsure what to think and what the best course of action is going forward.
Me and the lady I spent a lot of time talking too are still doing just that, talking over the phone and through texts every day even about random things. I've asked her to physically meet up for a date of sorts a couple of times but it has yet to happen. She did tell me she has told a relative about me and the said relative told her they'd be willing to babysit her child so she can make plans with me, I was pleased to hear that but that was about 2 weeks ago now. Nothing has come up since and I haven't pushed the issue to avoid sounding needy.
The stone cold truth is though is I'm starting to get tad fed up with the whole thing to be honest. We've been interacting daily for nearly a month now but nothing has transpired and some of our chit-chat can be really boring, least for me. I'll get messages from her and not even feel like replying because it's not interesting, we don't have an awful lot in common interest of personality wise. Maybe we actually do but how am I supposed to discover that if we're never going to physically spend any time together? It's been silent on that for weeks and I'm at point where I'm not going to be the one who brings it back up.
Part of me thinks I should just pull the plug because if my heart's not in now it likely never will be and I really shouldn't waste her's or my own time. I don't want to be a bad guy but I also don't want to be strung along or set myself up for a fall like I've done previously. The way things are going though, it's really not something I feel like chasing, that's being totally honest. I don't even think this will be a case of her maybe just testing me because I'd understand and respect that given her situation. She's always the first to message me in the mornings, she's called me to talk more than I've called her and she's told relatives and friends about me when I've revealed nothing about her to anyone other than on here. Maybe it's all actually just an eye-opener to the fact this isn't something to pursue after all because other than physical attraction there's not a lot there.
I dunno, I'll give it a bit longer and see what happens. Hope everyone is planning on having a great 2019, or at least a better year than this one. Always around if someone would like to talk.
Sounds like you’re not all that into her to be honest mate. Best course of action would be to just tell her up front and part ways. Plenty more people out there for both of you.