Great article by Matthew Syed, Sports Columnist of the Year in today's Times regarding Suarez et al. Have edited a bit of it here, then link for full article at bottom (don't know if you need to subscribe to access, but anyway)
"It is the idea that moral boundaries are often given to us by our peers, our colleagues, our parents, those close to us. These are the people who check our excesses, our tendency to veer into unacceptable territory, who help us to navigate in a world populated by other people.
They are the ones who caution us, who ridicule us, who teach us, who sometimes shout at us when we are going too far. These are the people who show their love not with unconditional support but with chastisement. Without these correctives, these critiques, these educational dialogues that help us to recognise the boundaries of acceptable behaviour, we are pretty much lost, whether in childhood or in the equally complex terrain of adulthood.
All of which brings me to Luis Suárez. It is precisely because Suárez is so lavishly indulged by those around him that he is unable to perceive the boundaries of proper behaviour; it is precisely because his crimes are legitimated by his peers that he is incapable of seeing the need to reform.
How is the player supposed to confess to his crime while those around him are colluding in the fantasy that he didn’t commit one?
Some have pointed out that Sir Alex Ferguson also defended his players publicly, but the difference is that the Scot chastised his players in private. Indeed, boundaries were probably more tightly enforced at Old Trafford than anywhere else. The players soon heard about it if they stepped out of line, in whatever way. Public support from Ferguson was about creating a siege mentality; it had nothing to do with the social realities within the training ground. The problem for Suárez is that he is being indulged both publicly and privately. It is a united chorus of sycophancy.
At Liverpool under Kenny Dalglish, Suárez was given the same dangerous latitude. After Suárez had racially abused Patrice Evra, the manager told the entire team to don T-shirts in support of the Uruguayan. Sources suggested that the Liverpool manager was four-square behind his star man privately, too, making the calculation that he needed to “keep him onside”. The consequence was inescapable: a further detachment from reality.
Suárez needs access to these social checks, too. When he bites someone, he needs to be told that it is wrong by those around him. When he racially abuses someone, he must be chastised. This is not the solution, but it is the necessary starting point for any rehabilitation worthy of the name. Without it, he will remain in a parallel universe where biting someone is synonymous with falling on to their shoulder, teeth first.
http://www.thetimes.co.uk/tto/sport/columnists/matthewsyed/article4133720.ece