Mate, it's not a sense of grandeur - it's just simple fact that we're a bigger club than you, and we're getting your fans piping up with nonsense. Not necessarily you (before the above post which, sadly, dipped into that territory) but it happens all the time. We had the same with Saints fans over Koeman; they were convinced on the stance of "why would Koeman go to a smaller club" - no, really, they thought that.
I think you do understand that Watford are traditionally and even now a smaller club than Everton. That's all that people are saying.
As for Silva, I agree with your post a few pages ago - if he comes out and doesn't declare outright he's staying, then he's gone. Until then, we wait - but let's face it; nothing has happened whatsoever thus far that hasn't happened a thousand times before when a manager of a smaller club goes to a bigger club.
As for 'tapping up', leaking interest in a manager isn't tapping up - an illegal approach is. There's no evidence whatsoever that we've done that and I very much doubt there will be. Publicly declaring an interest through the media is done all the time - hell, it's why Sky Sports News exists.