Me and the missus are hosting 12-15 people tomorrow night for New Year's eve. As is usual, the missus has gone into overdrive and has massively overcrowded. As she was working hard preparing all the grub for tomorrow, one if the group chirps up on the messanger group "who wants to go out tonight?" and most of them go along with it. We live farther away and we're busy preparing so didn't join them.
The reason I'm fuming is because of the effort and expense we've gone to and the person who suggested it is in his 60s with a habit of breaking up parties early "because he's tired", another had a stroke a few years ago and often goes early "because he's tired."
I'm locking the door once they're in tomorrow, til after midnight.