If you don't mind me asking, what happened?
All 3 are linked, so it woulld be a very very long story. But as brief as I can. Soon after she died, a new plant appeared in the meadow int the only place I was guaranteed to notice. Never seen it before, nor since. Turned out to be Yarrow, with white and blond buds. (her colour). Googled it, and in ancient English myths, fair maidens would pick Yarrow and put it under their pillow to find their true sweetheart.
Week or so later, had a small nosebleed. It got terrible enough (think 2 taps turned full on for an hour) to call 999. They thought their machines were wrong cos I had the highest blood pressure they had ever seen. Took me in, 4 ECGs later and tons of tests later, nowt wrong. Googled Yarrow again. It was used in ancient medicine to stem the blood, and was thought to start nosebleeds. Some call it the nosebleed plant.
Then a week or so after me Dad passed, another plant appeared where Niks Yarrow had been. Same colours. It was the flower of a Kiwi Fruit, and in the 5000 plants, 100 page brochure I have, the latin/biological name it has is right next the bio name for Yarrow .
Bare bones, but that is all 100% true, and if anyone can explain it all away, feel free.