Its not a question of accepting it ffs. Its that we need acknowledge it and understand that its where we are as a club and fixing it won't be as easy as we'd like. There is no quick fix.
Why? Why should we have enough to beat those teams? Our side dog crap. Utter garbage and everyone other then some of our deluded fans who love to wildly overrate our players can see it. So yes, it absolutely is debatable to say that we should have enough to beat Leeds, Southampton and Newcastle.
Until the vast majority of this side is purged from the club nothing can ever, or will ever change here. Transfer windows matter because we're stuck with managers using players that they didn't bring in or want.
So the transfers are a very valid discussion point when talking about defeats.