Hi Gwladys, I'm intrigued. what was on the tapes, was it soothing waves, music or breathing suggestions.? Might be something that could be useful to some folk on here. I find the sea, waves and generally things associated with water very helpful. As you have alluded to, if it works. I'm always taking on board tips on here and and at least suggesting different interventions that might work for my patients. My favourite method for relaxation which most on here would agree with is pets, especially the ones you can be tactile with. There's something about pets looking at you for love and attention and how it's returned by pets unconditionally.I was keen to try hypnotherapy and enquired at my surgery. It wasn’t an option unless I went private but the nurse suggested relaxation tapes, (yes tapes - it was a long time ago and I know I don’t look old enoughlol ). I found that they were a great help in managing my anxiety not saying it is for everyone just that it worked for me. Hypnotherapy may be the thing that works for you as @Spotty says it’s worth a try. Best of luck.