Congratulations mate. It's going to be fine!
Anything you're particularly worried about.
Thank you mate.
Suppose all the normal things people worry about in this situation.
How my life is going to change, will I have time to enjoy life anymore, finances, am I ready etc..
Although we have spoken about it over the last couple of months it was still very unexpected so I’ve been in a state of shock over the last couple of days.
Getting my head around it I’ve realised although our situation isn’t great, it could be a lot worse and this is a really good thing for us.
Money wise we are ok, she works fully remote, I’m home three days a week which is a huge blessing, and we have a massive support network with her family as well.
My biggest worry though is that support network is in Cumbria and we are in liverpool.
We currently renting a small terraced house in quite a remote area as I needed to be close to my mum who was terminally ill.
We never thought we’d be here four years down the line and we certainly didn’t expect to be having a child here so that’s the most stressful part id say, as it will be just us two for a lot of the time.
We are planning on moving up near her parents when we’ve had the child (all being well) so I’d need to look for a job up there and the options aren’t great.
Will pretty much have my life turned upside down over the next year or so.
I have severe social anxiety and when I went through therapy for it my therapist said my need to control and plan everything in my life was a root cause of it so it’s all a bit much to get my head around at the moment.
Thanks for all the comments everyone. Sometimes all you need to hear is everything will be ok.