Elong
The fire rises
It's more about respect. If a player, say Fellaini, came out tomorrow and said "I believe I'm good enough to play for Madrid and win a ton of ****, therefore although I love Everton and the fans I'd like to move". I think a lot of people would be more ok with it rather than handing in a transfer request without public comment and either refusing to play or playing turd.
Yeah true, perhaps I'm falling out of love with the game, and look at it as a business rather than a sport these days. Sad really.