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[Barnfred 55]

Something that brightened up my day is this Hammers fans video .A must watch :-

This is one he did from the last Goodison derby when he bunked in after we equalised. Watch it from 5 minutes to around 12 minutes. I don't think I've ever seen the Goodison atmosphere captured so well on video before.

 

[Barnfred 55]

Thanks for the birthday wishes having a great day with family and friends

Happy belated birthday Duc.

 

[Barnfred 55]

Hi everyone,

Yesterday was a very difficult day. I was at the hospital all day.

The good news is that the 2nd transfusion has boosted mums hemoglobin to normal levels but the bad news is that she has lost a ridiculous amount of weight and despite maintaining a decent appetite weighs only 36 kgs.

Even worse , overnight mum became delirious and was hallucinating. She was having imaginary conversations with my wife who wasn't with me. Calling the cat and trying to stroke her , asking the nurse if she was my wife's sister , accusing people of stealing her jewellery, the list was enormous. I cannot begin to tell you how distressing this was for me.

Despite being there virtually all day the Dr was too busy to discuss mums condition with me so I will go back again today and try again.

Sorry to hear this mate. Hopefully these delirious symptoms are only a temporary thing but the quick unexplained weight loss doesn't sound good. Fingers crossed for you Jazz.

 

[jazzy]

Sorry to hear this mate. Hopefully these delirious symptoms are only a temporary thing but the quick unexplained weight loss doesn't sound good. Fingers crossed for you Jazz.

Thanks Fred.

Just back from the hospital.

Mum shows great improvement.

She was bright , lucid and in less pain.

Hospital want to discharge her but I said no , not until she can get up , get dressed and go to the toilet unaided because quite simply I couldn't give the level of care that she currently needs.

Still waiting on the scan results to ascertain the underlying cause of the blood loss ( and weight loss I guess) and that is almost certainly bad news.

For now it's just a question of her getting the best quality of life that she's got left.

 

[Armaghtoffee]

Thanks Fred.

Just back from the hospital.

Mum shows great improvement.

She was bright , lucid and in less pain.

Hospital want to discharge her but I said no , not until she can get up , get dressed and go to the toilet unaided because quite simply I couldn't give the level of care that she currently needs.

Still waiting on the scan results to ascertain the underlying cause of the blood loss ( and weight loss I guess) and that is almost certainly bad news.

For now it's just a question of her getting the best quality of life that she's got left.

Pleased to hear about your Mum’s improvement. Will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers regarding the scan.

 

[jazzy]

Pleased to hear about your Mum’s improvement. Will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers regarding the scan.

Thanks AT

 

[blue1948]

Thanks Fred.

Just back from the hospital.

Mum shows great improvement.

She was bright , lucid and in less pain.

Hospital want to discharge her but I said no , not until she can get up , get dressed and go to the toilet unaided because quite simply I couldn't give the level of care that she currently needs.

Still waiting on the scan results to ascertain the underlying cause of the blood loss ( and weight loss I guess) and that is almost certainly bad news.

For now it's just a question of her getting the best quality of life that she's got left.

You are very brave @jazzy ,I hope the scan shows something they can help with and that your Mum understands that you are there for her . Stay strong that man.

 

[Gwladysover]

Thanks Fred.

Just back from the hospital.

Mum shows great improvement.

She was bright , lucid and in less pain.

Hospital want to discharge her but I said no , not until she can get up , get dressed and go to the toilet unaided because quite simply I couldn't give the level of care that she currently needs.

Still waiting on the scan results to ascertain the underlying cause of the blood loss ( and weight loss I guess) and that is almost certainly bad news.

For now it's just a question of her getting the best quality of life that she's got left.

So pleased to hear that your Mum is improved and that her pain is eased. Hoping that the scan results are not as bad as you fear. Sending best wishes as always.

 

[anjelikaferrett]

Thanks Fred.

Just back from the hospital.

Mum shows great improvement.

She was bright , lucid and in less pain.

Hospital want to discharge her but I said no , not until she can get up , get dressed and go to the toilet unaided because quite simply I couldn't give the level of care that she currently needs.

Still waiting on the scan results to ascertain the underlying cause of the blood loss ( and weight loss I guess) and that is almost certainly bad news.

For now it's just a question of her getting the best quality of life that she's got left.

So glad your Mum had improved today. Sending love as always x

 

[jazzy]

So pleased to hear that your Mum is improved and that her pain is eased. Hoping that the scan results are not as bad as you fear. Sending best wishes as always.

So glad your Mum had improved today. Sending love as always x

Thanks G and Anj x

 

[jazzy]

You are very brave @jazzy ,I hope the scan shows something they can help with and that your Mum understands that you are there for her . Stay strong that man.

Cheers Blue. Kind words but in all honesty no bravery from me , just my mum is the brave one.

 

[Armaghtoffee]

Morning All on this bright Tuesday morning. It seems like an age since we had a match but I suppose this means we should be basking in our lofty league position. It’s been too long since we could relax like this in March.

 

[blue1948]

Good morning all ,Yes AT it is strange and definitely better than the last few seasons .It would be nice to go ten games undefeated with a win .I hope all slept well and have a great day today .COYB

 

[Gwladysover]

Afternoon all. Hope everyone is okay. Mr G. looking to buy jeans in M&S this morning ummed and aaahed over which size so picked up a pair to try on, decided the smaller pair might be better, went back to get them to find two assistants removing all the price tags - the price had gone up £2. He wasn’t happy!

 

[peteblue]

Thanks Fred.

Just back from the hospital.

Mum shows great improvement.

She was bright , lucid and in less pain.

Hospital want to discharge her but I said no , not until she can get up , get dressed and go to the toilet unaided because quite simply I couldn't give the level of care that she currently needs.

Still waiting on the scan results to ascertain the underlying cause of the blood loss ( and weight loss I guess) and that is almost certainly bad news.

For now it's just a question of her getting the best quality of life that she's got left.

So glad to hear this Jazzy, sounds like she’s made a remarkable recovery, it’s cheered me up a treat……..