What are you talking about, we're only allowed to approach of of work nothing managers, haven't you seen the "shortlist"?A lot of the confusion and sense of disarray around these appointments (whether it be Everton, Spurs or anyone else is coming from agents.
The club will have agents sounding out who is interested and available and the various candidates will have agents trying to sound out the clubs, agents talking to agents talking to the media.
candidate’s already in a job you will hear less about for obvious reasons.