Fully agree mate.
I think some of this will be people's self defence mechanisms kicking in, so they aren't too disappointed when/if he does go. I think it's fair to say it's going to be near on impossible to replace him like for like. But we will get good money for him if he goes this summer and we should be able to buy an experienced striker and an emerging prospect (similar to what we did with Rom 3 years ago). The sort of thing I would like to see is King from Bournemouth and Dembele from Celtic or something along those lines.
But first choice would definitely be Rom staying, at least for another year and preferably with him signing a new contract.
The other thing to remember, which is important at the moment due to our squad rebuilding, is Rom is classed as home grown.