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Player Valuation: £50m
I think there's two issues here, why he wants to leave and how he's going about it. Personally I think he wants to leave because of his relationship with Koeman, who I don't think has handled the situation well. If that's his reason I don't have a problem with it.
The second part of this is how he's going about it, which is deciding to run his contract down so the club will either get a small amount of money or none. That I do have a problem with and it really doesn't reflect well on him as an individual and as an Evertonian. The reasonable thing to do would be to agree to extend his contract for an agreed transfer fee. Both parties then benefit, Ross gets to leave and the club get reasonable compensation. It's how he's going about it which is the cause of people calling him a rat.
He very nearly signed for Chelsea, not the actions of some who is running down the contract. I agree with most of what you say thogh