@ashtonian forum stag do.

[Bungle]

Can we get some kind of live stag-cam in this thread? I'll chip in for a Go-Pro.

Think it'll look a little like this

 

[Armel]

her dad is sound to be honest, been out with him once before years ago and we had a good time.

But yeah, apparantly i had to invite him, and we had to do it saturday as it was the only time he and her brothers could do it. Which is not really an issue for me as such, wasn't all pumped up for a stag either way. But its a bit sad that i can't get more than 1 person to come out who isn't previously engaged or even responding.

It will be the worlds worst stag do by the looks of it haha

Might have been mentioned already; but the easy suggestion: why don't you just have two then? One with only your friends, that you yourself get to invite. Surely there must be some date convenient for all?

 

[Ashtonian]

Might have been mentioned already; but the easy suggestion: why don't you just have two then? One with only your friends, that you yourself get to invite. Surely there must be some date convenient for all?

I was kinda thinking that but then it's cost. Remember have a wedding in like 6 weeks so hardly flowing with cash at the minute.

But yeah, it might be an idea but then it is a case of when as well, got to be convenient for everyone

 

[Bungle]

I was kinda thinking that but then it's cost. Remember have a wedding in like 6 weeks so hardly flowing with cash at the minute.

But yeah, it might be an idea but then it is a case of when as well, got to be convenient for everyone

My comments might not suggest it but I do love you, I'm just trying to lower your expectations so that you have an enjoyable evening.

Get some cans in and get battered and then ring Asian sensations chat line and hurl abuse at them for not shaving their pits.

 

[peteblue]

Has she not called it off yet.....

 

[neil999]

My comments might not suggest it but I do love you, I'm just trying to lower your expectations so that you have an enjoyable evening.

Get some cans in and get battered and then ring Asian sensations chat line and hurl abuse at them for not shaving their pits.

thats just tuesday isnt it?

 

[Deleted member 24970]

her dad is sound to be honest, been out with him once before years ago and we had a good time.

But yeah, apparantly i had to invite him, and we had to do it saturday as it was the only time he and her brothers could do it. Which is not really an issue for me as such, wasn't all pumped up for a stag either way. But its a bit sad that i can't get more than 1 person to come out who isn't previously engaged or even responding.

It will be the worlds worst stag do by the looks of it haha

Honestly mate I have lost lots of 'friends' over the years, I used to bend over backwards to show them I was available for a drink and such, never got much back. best thing to di is swerve the lot of them, I would much rather have two friends that I know are happy for me and make the effort, then hundreds of fakes who just want a knees up because they feel they have to show up.

Anybody who uses the old excuses like 'im busy' or 'stuck for money' are wasters. The least they can do is show up and buy you a pint and a hug/handshake. I would much rather have been to 'koff if im honest mate.

 

[Bungle]

thats just tuesday isnt it?

I don't actually know neil

 

[Ashtonian]

Honestly mate I have lost lots of 'friends' over the years, I used to bend over backwards to show them I was available for a drink and such, never got much back. best thing to di is swerve the lot of them, I would much rather have two friends that I know are happy for me and make the effort, then hundreds of fakes who just want a knees up because they feel they have to show up.

Anybody who uses the old excuses like 'im busy' or 'stuck for money' are wasters. The least they can do is show up and buy you a pint and a hug/handshake. I would much rather have been to 'koff if im honest mate.

I'm in half a mind to bin it off. I know one mate booked a break away after i told him about it but another booked a trip away before i told him, which he even said moved to friday and he would come out for it.

I'm largely the same, back when i was 19/20 i used to have loads of mates who i could meet up with. I even used to throw parties and have a few people turn up to have a good night. But over the years and since being a dad for most of them you do lose touch and stop living that life, with others moving on as well, figuratively and literally. So yeah where i do have some mates who i have stayed in touch with over the years, many others i am not anymore. So as sad as it may appear, i do have mates who i can go and see if i wanted, just happens it is a bit difficult to get them out for a stag do.

 

[neil999]

I don't actually know neil

ok, well i havent actually read this thread

 

[Ashtonian]

My comments might not suggest it but I do love you, I'm just trying to lower your expectations so that you have an enjoyable evening.

Get some cans in and get battered and then ring Asian sensations chat line and hurl abuse at them for not shaving their pits.

haha i did want to have a night in for it in all honesty. Get drunk and/or whatever else and play some games with mates like i did when i was 118, that sort of night. Not be arsed about having a night in town, just a night with mates, probably no sex lines though, and see off pre marriage like that.

 

[Deleted member 24970]

I'm in half a mind to bin it off. I know one mate booked a break away after i told him about it but another booked a trip away before i told him, which he even said moved to friday and he would come out for it.

I'm largely the same, back when i was 19/20 i used to have loads of mates who i could meet up with. I even used to throw parties and have a few people turn up to have a good night. But over the years and since being a dad for most of them you do lose touch and stop living that life, with others moving on as well, figuratively and literally. So yeah where i do have some mates who i have stayed in touch with over the years, many others i am not anymore. So as sad as it may appear, i do have mates who i can go and see if i wanted, just happens it is a bit difficult to get them out for a stag do.

The lad who booked a holiday after the stag do was announced should be treated with caution, unless he couldn't have any other dates for example.

The way I see it, if somebody really wants to be there for you for occasions such as your stag do, marriage and 'wetting the babys head' then they should be. Of course that is unless people work away or are genuinely sick etc..

 

[Bungle]

ok, well i havent actually read this thread

A wise choice

 

[Bungle]

haha i did want to have a night in for it in all honesty. Get drunk and/or whatever else and play some games with mates like i did when i was 118, that sort of night. Not be arsed about having a night in town, just a night with mates, probably no sex lines though, and see off pre marriage like that.

118? Are you Benjamin Button?

 

[Ashtonian]

The lad who booked a holiday after the stag do was announced should be treated with caution, unless he couldn't have any other dates for example.

The way I see it, if somebody really wants to be there for you for occasions such as your stag do, marriage and 'wetting the babys head' then they should be. Of course that is unless people work away or are genuinely sick etc..

Yeah i do have those types of mates. Ones that turn up to my kids party despite not having any kids himself (in an uncreepy way) or the other mate who has said they are going, hardly really see him but straight in there saying he was going which was sound of him. Whereas the mate who booked the trip after i asked him originally i have known since i was 13. i never see him these days but i think after this he best turn up to the wedding otherwise i don't think those years will count for anything.

118? Are you Benjamin Button?

haha i wish, stop these grey hairs at least