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Caught cheating stories

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So I stayed away many years. I still am under no illusion it could or did happen in my current relationship. Not that necessarily I've had clues but you would be silly to blindly believe. I don't stress don't ever get jealous, I never look in phones or cross examine if I find out I find out then deal with it, what may be may be but you might aswell play along in the hope you don't die alone.

I love the idea of a loyal life long bond no one can break with a lover but its statically daft to believe. And thats just taking the figures you know about not factoring in these things should really be a hidden secret.

Congrats on the engagement
 
Whilst it may seem fun, it aint worth half of what I have got, and the thought of not seeing my little girl every day puts it into perspective. I'm a keen window shopper but thats where it ends.

When I was younger I remember one fella I knew who was in his late 50s, he was with a girl 20 years his junior but he had no money and lived in a crappy bedsit, 2x ex wives had his house and all his money.
 
Years ago my then missus said, completely out of the blue, me her and her mates hubby were going to watch the speedway in Manchester. I didn't have the slightest interest in speedway but it was her mate's treat so off we went. Women being the conniving bitches they're renowned for in this instance arranged this so her mate could have a Saturday night exchanging bodily fluids with this bloke, free of the fear of being interrupted. Turned out this sort of thing had been going on for yonks. A while later I saw her with this guy and he was quite a catch I suppose resembling Peter Sarsted the singer. I chatted a while with them. That was the only time I met him.
A few years later he turns up on the arm of my cousin at a family do and was introduced to him. We both had that knowing look in each others eyes and despite that when I saw him on his own, completely denied ever knowing me or the other woman from a few years back.
He married my cousin and they've been together 47 years and in the countless family gatherings since the previous behaviour of his was never discussed.
 
Years ago my then missus said, completely out of the blue, me her and her mates hubby were going to watch the speedway in Manchester. I didn't have the slightest interest in speedway but it was her mate's treat so off we went. Women being the conniving bitches they're renowned for in this instance arranged this so her mate could have a Saturday night exchanging bodily fluids with this bloke, free of the fear of being interrupted. Turned out this sort of thing had been going on for yonks. A while later I saw her with this guy and he was quite a catch I suppose resembling Peter Sarsted the singer. I chatted a while with them. That was the only time I met him.
A few years later he turns up on the arm of my cousin at a family do and was introduced to him. We both had that knowing look in each others eyes and despite that when I saw him on his own, completely denied ever knowing me or the other woman from a few years back.
He married my cousin and they've been together 47 years and in the countless family gatherings since the previous behaviour of his was never discussed.

The amount of stuff that I knew about people and kept under my lid, in my old job was worth it`s weight in gold mate.

There`s nothing like having some heavy weight dirt on your boss, to make sure your working life runs smoothly lol

Plus, the fact that you`ve keep it to yourself, shows that you`re loyal and can be trusted and that goes a long way too.
 
During the War my Mum and older sister were evacuated to Shropshire. When she got back she was forever hearing whispers about the number of women the governor had been "spending time with" They stayed together until she died in her 70s.
When I was a teenager he gave me some priceless advice.
 

Years ago my then missus said, completely out of the blue, me her and her mates hubby were going to watch the speedway in Manchester. I didn't have the slightest interest in speedway but it was her mate's treat so off we went. Women being the conniving bitches they're renowned for in this instance arranged this so her mate could have a Saturday night exchanging bodily fluids with this bloke, free of the fear of being interrupted. Turned out this sort of thing had been going on for yonks. A while later I saw her with this guy and he was quite a catch I suppose resembling Peter Sarsted the singer. I chatted a while with them. That was the only time I met him.
A few years later he turns up on the arm of my cousin at a family do and was introduced to him. We both had that knowing look in each others eyes and despite that when I saw him on his own, completely denied ever knowing me or the other woman from a few years back.
He married my cousin and they've been together 47 years and in the countless family gatherings since the previous behaviour of his was never discussed.
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"I've got 3 tickets to Speedway and 2 tickets to paradise"
 
Congrats on the engagement
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Yeah, I agree. I think there's degrees too. If my missus was having a long term affair with someone, I'd want to know. If she drunkenly snogged some randomer on a night out, she can keep that to herself. None of us are perfect and mistakes get made.
Wow!!! Id like to think if someone actually loves you that no matter how drunk they are they have an underlying feeling of not to cheat on you..

Id certainly not forgive that.
 
Like Father like........?
I'm no perfect gentleman, but he's in a league of his own.

I often wonder if his liberal approach to life has been a factor on me never getting married. I'm 50 this year and have never felt the urge. I have a long term partner (divorcee - no, I'm not the reason, or my dad before you ask) who has little interest in marrying again.

I'm perfectly fine with that. And not having kids of my own. Much sooner enjoy my nephews and nieces whenever I visit. I get the enjoyment of seeing them grow without the noise, mess, expense and worry.
 
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"I've got 3 tickets to Speedway and 2 tickets to paradise"
I looked at the images of the singer just before posting and this one is the mirror image of the knobber in 1971.
The amount of stuff that I knew about people and kept under my lid, in my old job was worth it`s weight in gold mate.

There`s nothing like having some heavy weight dirt on your boss, to make sure your working life runs smoothly lol

Plus, the fact that you`ve keep it to yourself, shows that you`re loyal and can be trusted and that goes a long way too.
I'm trying to ignore the elephant in the room here taking me back to darker times. My marriage was down to teenage pregnancy and doing the right thing in them days. Serving my apprenticeship, second job of an evening in a pub, night school and so on, oh and a mortgage believe it or not money non existent. Unsurprisingly missus had her head turned by likes previously mentioned mate and was getting taken out by the girls and treated. No guesses what else was going on! Fight or flight? A bit of both but once the trust has gone, there's no way back.
Me and second wife together 45 years this year. Sapphire ring awaits for the lady.
 
I'm no perfect gentleman, but he's in a league of his own.

I often wonder if his liberal approach to life has been a factor on me never getting married. I'm 50 this year and have never felt the urge. I have a long term partner (divorcee - no, I'm not the reason, or my dad before you ask) who has little interest in marrying again.

I'm perfectly fine with that. And not having kids of my own. Much sooner enjoy my nephews and nieces whenever I visit. I get the enjoyment of seeing them grow without the noise, mess, expense and worry.

I am similar age to you, and also, not married to Mrs R after 20 years together.

I am not moved to impart advice very often, but after a rather traumatic 2020, we are tying the knot asap. The reason? Being married when/if stuff that life can throw at you comes your way is way more convenient for dealing with random agencies and that.

Soz. Back on topic, I do have a funny and true story of how someone rather clumsily revealed a cheater to their other half. Pretty sure I have posted it before though.
 

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