Caught cheating stories

[witchdoc187]

That is even more degrading blowing you on what she thinks is a technicality. I dono what I'd do if she came at me with that one. I sucked him dry cause you made me promise not to have sex. I'd much prefer her just to go all way than make me feel like its my fault I wasn't more detailed in the verbal contract. There's cheating then there's making a complete fool out of you.

Defo prefer 'im sorry I slept with him' than 'yeah I gargled his nut all night cause you practically said I could.' The latter would, and im not a violent man and wouldn't go there but I would have to suppress a severe amount of rage.

I think I'd be disappointed in her too.

 

[COYBL25]

I separated from my ex-wife in 2005 then started seeing a new girl in 2007. We then had a child in 2010 and hit our 5 year anniversary in 2012. By this point she was talking about marriage a lot and I mean A LOT. She was trying to get all her friends and family to pressure me in to it but the problem was my divorce had been horrendous. I'd been in and out of court and solicitors offices for 6 years. It cost me a fortune and was a massive stress for a long time. My girlfiend knew what I was going through and that I was still technically married until 2011. As far as I was concerned the clock only really started ticking on our relationship once my divorce finally came through so in 2012 I was only 1 year in to it whereas she was 5 years in. That's when things when drastically down hill. Instead of trying to show how much she loved me and that we would be together forever, my girlfriend cheated on me. I found out on the first day of a family holiday abroad with her Mum, Dad, 2 brothers and sister-in-law. She spent the entire day mesasging on her phone and made no effort to diguise that she was hiding her screen from anyone seeing it. When she had a shower later that day I looked at the messages and saw hundreds of texts confirming everything. I took the phone to the pool, threw it to the bottom and sat and sunbathed until she came looking for it. Let's just say poop hit the fan big time and the holiday was ruined. I was tempted to fly home early but instead spent the next 13 days making sure she had the worst time possible. 3 times I waited until she'd spent over an our getting ready to go out for a meal with her family then pushed her in the pool. Twice I poured an entire container of salt over her dinner just as it was put in front of her. 3 times I got up early and took out daughter out for the entire day without telling her where we were going then the day before we were due to fly home I hid her passport and didn't give it back until 3 hours before the flight. I was so tempted to let her get stranded in Portugal. As soon as we got home she moved in to the spare room for a few months until she bought her own house and moved out.
Luckily it is the one and only time I have knowingly been cheated on and I have never done it to anyone else. It's not worth the hassle and if I'm not happy in a relationship I just leave. Hopefully I'll never have to do that again and I'm very happy with the one I'm in now, 4 years in to my second marriage.

One of my best mates missus did was carrying on with the builder who was doing their kitchen, whilst he was having chemo for throat cancer ( doesn`t get lower than that in my eyes )

He only found out when his mum ( who`s a wily old fox ) happened to walk into the bogs of a restaurant they where all in and caught her on the phone to him.

She denied it, but his mum was having none of it and tipped off my mate.

After accessing her phone and finding all kinds on it, he set up a fake chemo session and parked somewhere out of sight, leaving to two of them on her own in the house. He gave it half an hour and let himself in, catching them on the couch in the front room ( clothed ).

The builder managed to leg it out of the back and into his van, leaving behind a half finished kitchen and all his tools ( which he never got back )

My mate comes from a family that is quite " connected " and the builder was paid a visit and " spoken too ".

At the divorce proceedings, the court quite rightly took the side of my mate and he did very well out of his divorce settlement, which was made even better for him, by the fact his ex missus was caught out lying about assets that she had tried to hide.

 

[DanEFC92]

I separated from my ex-wife in 2005 then started seeing a new girl in 2007. We then had a child in 2010 and hit our 5 year anniversary in 2012. By this point she was talking about marriage a lot and I mean A LOT. She was trying to get all her friends and family to pressure me in to it but the problem was my divorce had been horrendous. I'd been in and out of court and solicitors offices for 6 years. It cost me a fortune and was a massive stress for a long time. My girlfiend knew what I was going through and that I was still technically married until 2011. As far as I was concerned the clock only really started ticking on our relationship once my divorce finally came through so in 2012 I was only 1 year in to it whereas she was 5 years in. That's when things when drastically down hill. Instead of trying to show how much she loved me and that we would be together forever, my girlfriend cheated on me. I found out on the first day of a family holiday abroad with her Mum, Dad, 2 brothers and sister-in-law. She spent the entire day mesasging on her phone and made no effort to diguise that she was hiding her screen from anyone seeing it. When she had a shower later that day I looked at the messages and saw hundreds of texts confirming everything. I took the phone to the pool, threw it to the bottom and sat and sunbathed until she came looking for it. Let's just say poop hit the fan big time and the holiday was ruined. I was tempted to fly home early but instead spent the next 13 days making sure she had the worst time possible. 3 times I waited until she'd spent over an our getting ready to go out for a meal with her family then pushed her in the pool. Twice I poured an entire container of salt over her dinner just as it was put in front of her. 3 times I got up early and took out daughter out for the entire day without telling her where we were going then the day before we were due to fly home I hid her passport and didn't give it back until 3 hours before the flight. I was so tempted to let her get stranded in Portugal. As soon as we got home she moved in to the spare room for a few months until she bought her own house and moved out.
Luckily it is the one and only time I have knowingly been cheated on and I have never done it to anyone else. It's not worth the hassle and if I'm not happy in a relationship I just leave. Hopefully I'll never have to do that again and I'm very happy with the one I'm in now, 4 years in to my second marriage.

 

[DanEFC92]

One of my best mates missus did was carrying on with the builder who was doing their kitchen, whilst he was having chemo for throat cancer ( doesn`t get lower than that in my eyes )

He only found out when his mum ( who`s a wily old fox ) happened to walk into the bogs of a restaurant they where all in and caught her on the phone to him.

She denied it, but his mum was having none of it and tipped off my mate.

After accessing her phone and finding all kinds on it, he set up a fake chemo session and parked somewhere out of sight, leaving to two of them on her own in the house. He gave it half an hour and let himself in, catching them on the couch in the front room ( clothed ).

The builder managed to leg it out of the back and into his van, leaving behind a half finished kitchen and all his tools ( which he never got back )

My mate comes from a family that is quite " connected " and the builder was paid a visit and " spoken too ".

At the divorce proceedings, the court quite rightly took the side of my mate and he did very well out of his divorce settlement, which was made even better for him, by the fact his ex missus was caught out lying about assets that she had tried to hide.

Yerrrrsss. How bad was the 'telling off'?

 

[COYBL25]

Yerrrrsss. How bad was the 'telling off'?

It involved a van and a journey out to somewhere " quiet " at night.

Last time he saw my mate, he actually legged it, so I think the message got through to him lol

 

[Daveysgingerlovechild]

I separated from my ex-wife in 2005 then started seeing a new girl in 2007. We then had a child in 2010 and hit our 5 year anniversary in 2012. By this point she was talking about marriage a lot and I mean A LOT. She was trying to get all her friends and family to pressure me in to it but the problem was my divorce had been horrendous. I'd been in and out of court and solicitors offices for 6 years. It cost me a fortune and was a massive stress for a long time. My girlfiend knew what I was going through and that I was still technically married until 2011. As far as I was concerned the clock only really started ticking on our relationship once my divorce finally came through so in 2012 I was only 1 year in to it whereas she was 5 years in. That's when things when drastically down hill. Instead of trying to show how much she loved me and that we would be together forever, my girlfriend cheated on me. I found out on the first day of a family holiday abroad with her Mum, Dad, 2 brothers and sister-in-law. She spent the entire day mesasging on her phone and made no effort to diguise that she was hiding her screen from anyone seeing it. When she had a shower later that day I looked at the messages and saw hundreds of texts confirming everything. I took the phone to the pool, threw it to the bottom and sat and sunbathed until she came looking for it. Let's just say poop hit the fan big time and the holiday was ruined. I was tempted to fly home early but instead spent the next 13 days making sure she had the worst time possible. 3 times I waited until she'd spent over an our getting ready to go out for a meal with her family then pushed her in the pool. Twice I poured an entire container of salt over her dinner just as it was put in front of her. 3 times I got up early and took out daughter out for the entire day without telling her where we were going then the day before we were due to fly home I hid her passport and didn't give it back until 3 hours before the flight. I was so tempted to let her get stranded in Portugal. As soon as we got home she moved in to the spare room for a few months until she bought her own house and moved out.
Luckily it is the one and only time I have knowingly been cheated on and I have never done it to anyone else. It's not worth the hassle and if I'm not happy in a relationship I just leave. Hopefully I'll never have to do that again and I'm very happy with the one I'm in now, 4 years in to my second marriage.

Sounds like you handled it maturely and with grace.

 

[DanEFC92]

It involved a van and a journey out to somewhere " quiet " at night.

Last time he saw my mate, he actually legged it, so I think the message got through to him lol

I'd have taken his black and decker to his nutsack, me. The cheeky get.

 

[the sniderman]

I'd have taken his black and decker to his nutsack, me. The cheeky get.

buddy are u mafia??

 

[Billy Dean]

I was 90% sure I would never get married before reading this thread and now it's 100% lol

 

[ArtetaMoney]

I separated from my ex-wife in 2005 then started seeing a new girl in 2007. We then had a child in 2010 and hit our 5 year anniversary in 2012. By this point she was talking about marriage a lot and I mean A LOT. She was trying to get all her friends and family to pressure me in to it but the problem was my divorce had been horrendous. I'd been in and out of court and solicitors offices for 6 years. It cost me a fortune and was a massive stress for a long time. My girlfiend knew what I was going through and that I was still technically married until 2011. As far as I was concerned the clock only really started ticking on our relationship once my divorce finally came through so in 2012 I was only 1 year in to it whereas she was 5 years in. That's when things when drastically down hill. Instead of trying to show how much she loved me and that we would be together forever, my girlfriend cheated on me. I found out on the first day of a family holiday abroad with her Mum, Dad, 2 brothers and sister-in-law. She spent the entire day mesasging on her phone and made no effort to diguise that she was hiding her screen from anyone seeing it. When she had a shower later that day I looked at the messages and saw hundreds of texts confirming everything. I took the phone to the pool, threw it to the bottom and sat and sunbathed until she came looking for it. Let's just say poop hit the fan big time and the holiday was ruined. I was tempted to fly home early but instead spent the next 13 days making sure she had the worst time possible. 3 times I waited until she'd spent over an our getting ready to go out for a meal with her family then pushed her in the pool. Twice I poured an entire container of salt over her dinner just as it was put in front of her. 3 times I got up early and took out daughter out for the entire day without telling her where we were going then the day before we were due to fly home I hid her passport and didn't give it back until 3 hours before the flight. I was so tempted to let her get stranded in Portugal. As soon as we got home she moved in to the spare room for a few months until she bought her own house and moved out.
Luckily it is the one and only time I have knowingly been cheated on and I have never done it to anyone else. It's not worth the hassle and if I'm not happy in a relationship I just leave. Hopefully I'll never have to do that again and I'm very happy with the one I'm in now, 4 years in to my second marriage.

As rubbish as this outcome was, it sounds like you enjoyed the torturing her part of the story. Fair play, man. She deserved it.

 

[witchdoc187]

I separated from my ex-wife in 2005 then started seeing a new girl in 2007. We then had a child in 2010 and hit our 5 year anniversary in 2012. By this point she was talking about marriage a lot and I mean A LOT. She was trying to get all her friends and family to pressure me in to it but the problem was my divorce had been horrendous. I'd been in and out of court and solicitors offices for 6 years. It cost me a fortune and was a massive stress for a long time. My girlfiend knew what I was going through and that I was still technically married until 2011. As far as I was concerned the clock only really started ticking on our relationship once my divorce finally came through so in 2012 I was only 1 year in to it whereas she was 5 years in. That's when things when drastically down hill. Instead of trying to show how much she loved me and that we would be together forever, my girlfriend cheated on me. I found out on the first day of a family holiday abroad with her Mum, Dad, 2 brothers and sister-in-law. She spent the entire day mesasging on her phone and made no effort to diguise that she was hiding her screen from anyone seeing it. When she had a shower later that day I looked at the messages and saw hundreds of texts confirming everything. I took the phone to the pool, threw it to the bottom and sat and sunbathed until she came looking for it. Let's just say poop hit the fan big time and the holiday was ruined. I was tempted to fly home early but instead spent the next 13 days making sure she had the worst time possible. 3 times I waited until she'd spent over an our getting ready to go out for a meal with her family then pushed her in the pool. Twice I poured an entire container of salt over her dinner just as it was put in front of her. 3 times I got up early and took out daughter out for the entire day without telling her where we were going then the day before we were due to fly home I hid her passport and didn't give it back until 3 hours before the flight. I was so tempted to let her get stranded in Portugal. As soon as we got home she moved in to the spare room for a few months until she bought her own house and moved out.
Luckily it is the one and only time I have knowingly been cheated on and I have never done it to anyone else. It's not worth the hassle and if I'm not happy in a relationship I just leave. Hopefully I'll never have to do that again and I'm very happy with the one I'm in now, 4 years in to my second marriage.

I think I know you mate. Are you "Iceman" Rob?

 

[witchdoc187]

I was 90% sure I would never get married before reading this thread and now it's 100% lol

As a soon not to be married father of one I can confirm it is everything it's cracked up to be

 

[-Rob-]

I think I know you mate. Are you "Iceman" Rob?

If that's what you want to call me, you're welcome to but it's not a name I've gone by before.

 

[-Rob-]

Sounds like you handled it maturely and with grace.

It was before the days when attention seekers would film it all to put on social media so my maturity and grace has gone unrecognised until today.

 

[Yarrgh]

One of the most under rated things about getting married is not having to try and charm other women. It's so relaxing having no interest in other women. Sure I look but it's more akin to going into an art gallery to look at the exhibits - look only, no touching, let alone think about picking one up.