Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

[loooweee]

care to elaborate?

It all stems from miscommunication and these two guys using negative. Negative connotations of being gay in the many jokes 'just teasing bs', asking me stupid questions to test me or find me out and just calling me gay boy. Not particular threats or insults just repetative and constant. Honestly I'm pretty terrible at dealing with idiots and quite.gullible. just can't believe I (still) have to deal with bullying at this age now.

 

[Abertonian]

It all stems from miscommunication and these two guys using negative. Negative connotations of being gay in the many jokes 'just teasing bs', asking me stupid questions to test me or find me out and just calling me gay boy. Not particular threats or insults just repetative and constant. Honestly. I'm pretty terrible at dealing with idiots just can't believe I have to deal with bullying at.this age now. Pathetic

Really mate it stems from the two of them being insecure and using you as a means of masking or hiding from their own issues, whatever that may be. My work place is fairly homophobic, not directed at anyone but just generally. Its sad that things are like that in 2016.

As @flippa said before it says more about the people bullying than it does about you.

Personally I'd fight fire with fire but thats just me i.e. - "Yeah you're right mate. In fact i'm just away to call this dude whose number was in the bogs to sort out a date for tonight" Then phone one of their phones.

 

[wbn61]

It all stems from miscommunication and these two guys using negative. Negative connotations of being gay in the many jokes 'just teasing bs', asking me stupid questions to test me or find me out and just calling me gay boy. Not particular threats or insults just repetative and constant. Honestly I'm pretty terrible at dealing with idiots and quite.gullible. just can't believe I (still) have to deal with bullying at this age now.

I understand, been through it most of my life with being a bit of a loner, wearing a hearing aid and welsh, we were supposed to just laugh it off in those days but it did hurt and as you say still does at times these days.

 

[loooweee]

I understand, been through it most of my life with being a bit of a loner, wearing a hearing aid and welsh, we were supposed to just laugh it off in those days but it did hurt and as you say still does at times these days.

Are you deaf? I wear Hearing aids as well

 

[wbn61]

Are you deaf? I wear Hearing aids as well

I wouldn't say I was deaf but very hard of hearing. yes I wear one, as a young kid I wore 2.

( everyone starts looking for hearing aid in pic )

 

[blueloon]

I wouldn't say I was deaf but very hard of hearing. yes I wear one, as a young kid I wore 2.

( everyone starts looking for hearing aid in pic )

Well it was a bit of a give away, you're obviously the one turning sideways saying to his mate " What's Ossie saying?"

 

[BiggyRat]

I wouldn't say I was deaf but very hard of hearing. yes I wear one, as a young kid I wore 2.

( everyone starts looking for hearing aid in pic )

Considering your maturity, I'd been looking for a hearing trumpet!

 

[wbn61]

will give a few clues. I have never worn a football shirt to a game and never wear a cap.

 

[kithnou]

will give a few clues. I have never worn a football shirt to a game and never wear a cap.

are you wearing glasses mate?

 

[chicoazul]

Do you have red curly hair?

 

[chicoazul]

No?

 

[chicoazul]

flips down Herman*

 

[chicoazul]

Homophobic abuse today. I'm not actually gay but jesus what a kin horrible day.

Society has made such massive strides that they now look the utter tits mate, not who they saying it to.

Buzz off the insecure beauts. Or bring them a rose each into work tomorrow and wink at them.

 

[wbn61]

are you wearing glasses mate?

reading this yes but at a game no

 

[wbn61]

Do you have red curly hair?

that's no help the whole end is full of clowns