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Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

It's been about 15 years since I've really had an 'issue' but I feel like I'm on the way to one. Issue doesn't mean I'm going to jump out of a building, just that I'm really in a spiral. And I honestly can't figure out why. 3 weeks ago I was blaring Christmas music singing obnoxiously on the top of my lungs with my lady annoying the crap out of her and now I'm at this point.

Forgot how much this sucks...

Has something happened to kick this off again ?.

Maybe a trip to the docs for a short course of meds in the meantime, just to stop the spiral before it gets really bad ?.

* It's good that you've recognised the signs early on. A lot of people would've stuck their head in the sand.
 
Not sure you even need picturesque for that to be effective. I aim to walk IPod and purpose free several times per week, I make a point of looking around me and I see so many things I walk past daily and don't see. Don't know why but it's therapeutic for me.

I suspect the answer is, slow life down, look around you and take it all in.
Very similar to my approach. I won't take drugs, so am left with diet, CBT and exercise. I also make a point of taking a daily walk, and it's my opportunity to go over the events, worries, etc, of the day. I 'work' my head while doing the same to my body, and by the time I get back in, I've usually made sense of everything and mentally put it where it needs to be (applying CBT learning). The combination of the exercise and thinking time puts me in a much better frame of mind for the evening, sleep, etc.
 
It's been about 15 years since I've really had an 'issue' but I feel like I'm on the way to one. Issue doesn't mean I'm going to jump out of a building, just that I'm really in a spiral. And I honestly can't figure out why. 3 weeks ago I was blaring Christmas music singing obnoxiously on the top of my lungs with my lady annoying the crap out of her and now I'm at this point.

Forgot how much this sucks...
Christmas itself can be a bit of a trigger. I had a bit of a dip earlier. I was feeling pretty good, but went to a garden centre for something and was struck by how empty and sparse it felt. I was seeing Christmas stuff everywhere and got to thinking how the anticipation is there now, but in less than a week, it will all be over, then a week after that, it's January. Routines will all be back to normal, but with nothing to look forward to after weeks of Christmas build-up, more short cold days to come, etc. I reminded myself of the things I've purposely lined up for the New Year to look forward to, and cheered myself up, but I know that Christmas is difficult for a lot of people suffering from stress, depression and anxiety, and wondered if that was a specific trigger for you?
 
Christmas itself can be a bit of a trigger. I had a bit of a dip earlier. I was feeling pretty good, but went to a garden centre for something and was struck by how empty and sparse it felt. I was seeing Christmas stuff everywhere and got to thinking how the anticipation is there now, but in less than a week, it will all be over, then a week after that, it's January. Routines will all be back to normal, but with nothing to look forward to after weeks of Christmas build-up, more short cold days to come, etc. I reminded myself of the things I've purposely lined up for the New Year to look forward to, and cheered myself up, but I know that Christmas is difficult for a lot of people suffering from stress, depression and anxiety, and wondered if that was a specific trigger for you?
Christmas is a trigger due to the subsequent come down but the flip side is the joy of the preceding weeks. I was driving today, singing along and thought it's the only time of the year that the music purposely changes on the radio. It is a big event and deserves the run up. I was at my 2nd carol service of the year last night, the closing theme was find the child in yourself. You won't be far wrong if you can take a step back and do that, focus on the small yet good things and make them immediate.

I'm lucky, I get stressed and anxious but I feel I can shake it by slowing down. I have embraced Christmas the last few years, people are up for a laugh and I'm jumping in with both feet ;)
 

Very similar to my approach. I won't take drugs, so am left with diet, CBT and exercise. I also make a point of taking a daily walk, and it's my opportunity to go over the events, worries, etc, of the day. I 'work' my head while doing the same to my body, and by the time I get back in, I've usually made sense of everything and mentally put it where it needs to be (applying CBT learning). The combination of the exercise and thinking time puts me in a much better frame of mind for the evening, sleep, etc.

Same here. Long bath in the morning. Nowadays 1.5 hour run in the evening. This summer my tendon flared up again and it really had detrimental effects.

Don't really care about Christmas any more. It's always something similar anyhow. A couple of weeks later carnival, then Easter, ... It's something like that almost every month...
 
How are things going with the meds lads ?

Sorry been on a little vacation from here :blush:

I think they're slowly working. I'm so tired all of the time. Aiming to be back at work next week, which is a short week due to the time of year. I'm so bad in the mornings, terrified to get out of bed still, but it passes as the morning goes on. Easy to let it pass at home, but work will be harder. I still have nearly a week for the meds to fully kick in though, they will take time. Family is over for Xmas, and taking them around showing them stuff hasn't made me too anxious which is good! Just getting going in the day, and keeping an appetite, that's the hard part. Like really hard.
 
Sorry been on a little vacation from here :blush:

I think they're slowly working. I'm so tired all of the time. Aiming to be back at work next week, which is a short week due to the time of year. I'm so bad in the mornings, terrified to get out of bed still, but it passes as the morning goes on. Easy to let it pass at home, but work will be harder. I still have nearly a week for the meds to fully kick in though, they will take time. Family is over for Xmas, and taking them around showing them stuff hasn't made me too anxious which is good! Just getting going in the day, and keeping an appetite, that's the hard part. Like really hard.

Lol - " little vacation " ;)

What I used to do when I was really bad, was set the alarm next to the bed on vibrate, so it woke me up at around 6am and no one else. I'd then take my meds, with something like a banana or a nature bar, then doze unti it was time to get up. That way when I got up the meds were starting to work and took the edge off the morning blues.

If you read up on the morning stuff, you'll find that it's always it's at its worst in the morning due to the way the chemicals change in your brain whilst asleep. The main one is " cortisol " which should be released slowly as part of the waking process. With chronic anxiety sufferers ( me ) it is released in a " rush " hence the terrible feelings of fear and anxiety when you first wake.

By taking the meds early doors you can lessen the fear / anxiety in the morning x
 
Lol - " little vacation " ;)

What I used to do when I was really bad, was set the alarm next to the bed on vibrate, so it woke me up at around 6am and no one else. I'd then take my meds, with something like a banana or a nature bar, then doze unti it was time to get up. That way when I got up the meds were starting to work and took the edge off the morning blues.

If you read up on the morning stuff, you'll find that it's always it's at its worst in the morning due to the way the chemicals change in your brain whilst asleep. The main one is " cortisol " which should be released slowly as part of the waking process. With chronic anxiety sufferers ( me ) it is released in a " rush " hence the terrible feelings of fear and anxiety when you first wake.

By taking the meds early doors you can lessen the fear / anxiety in the morning x

Awesome advice. I start work at 6am, so it's gonna have to be 5am alarms for me lol but that's okay. I have been taking my citalopram at night because I'm off work and they can make me a bit drowsy and I don't want to spoil my holiday, but I will be taking them in the morning when work resumes. Got a backup of benzos to take whenever, but have only felt like using 1 in the morning. Down to half a sleeping pill at night instead of a full tablet now too.

It's been slow going this time around, I remember being one of the first people in this thread a few years ago and I was okay after a couple of weeks, this is approaching a month.
 
Sorry been on a little vacation from here :blush:

I think they're slowly working. I'm so tired all of the time. Aiming to be back at work next week, which is a short week due to the time of year. I'm so bad in the mornings, terrified to get out of bed still, but it passes as the morning goes on. Easy to let it pass at home, but work will be harder. I still have nearly a week for the meds to fully kick in though, they will take time. Family is over for Xmas, and taking them around showing them stuff hasn't made me too anxious which is good! Just getting going in the day, and keeping an appetite, that's the hard part. Like really hard.
Sometimes meds can take quite a while to kick in and work.

Hopefully though they'll help and that.
 

Sometimes meds can take quite a while to kick in and work.

Hopefully though they'll help and that.

Yeah my GP has been really good, even rang me yesterday to see how I was getting on, says I sound like I'm on track, which is weird cos I feel crap! Couple more weeks to go he reckons. I can see the light at the end of the tunnel, so I'm positive about it. Feels like running a long distance race and getting that second wind.
 
Yeah my GP has been really good, even rang me yesterday to see how I was getting on, says I sound like I'm on track, which is weird cos I feel crap! Couple more weeks to go he reckons. I can see the light at the end of the tunnel, so I'm positive about it. Feels like running a long distance race and getting that second wind.
The very fact you're aware of the possible delayed action, and appear to be very sensible about it, will help you immensely.
 
The very fact you're aware of the possible delayed action, and appear to be very sensible about it, will help you immensely.

Bloody tough though I tell ya, as I'm sure you're also aware.

Happy to share this in here with people though, and if anyone ever wants to talk about what they're going through do it here or pm me. I've been through the worst year of my life this year (karma according to one vile poster on here lol ). Would love to help as I've always tried to on this thread.
 
Bloody tough though I tell ya, as I'm sure you're also aware.

Happy to share this in here with people though, and if anyone ever wants to talk about what they're going through do it here or pm me. I've been through the worst year of my life this year (karma according to one vile poster on here lol ). Would love to help as I've always tried to on this thread.
Much appreciated
 
Considering going to the doctors after Christmas and requesting to be put back on citalopram. I've been off all meds mostly for about 3 years, even during that awful spell earlier in the year when I really should have been on them I was so bad. I don't feel depressed now but I still feel a bit bluesy and have done for a few months, my low confidence and social anxiety are pretty poor at the minute and I don't feel like it's ever going to improve on it's own.

As I've said before, I've lost a fair bit of my social life since starting this new job and have failed to build new proper friendships with any of my new colleagues. No one is nasty to me or anything, they're all fine to interact with but I just don't feel included because I know they all socialise together during the day and outside of work and I feel like I'm on the outside looking in which depressing considering we're all around the same age. I feel like I'm struggling to get my personality across a lot of the time and it's really starting to get me down, people thinking I'm some cold fish whom it's not worth talking too generally. Would going back on the meds help at all to bring me back up a bit? I just don't want to be feeling sorry for myself most of the time because otherwise it won't ever get better.

Any advice, it would be greatly appreciated thanks. Merry Christmas everyone.
 

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