Is your firm cost cutting elsewhere ?
If so, I'd console yourself with the fact that it's the way things are at the mo.
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Is your firm cost cutting elsewhere ?
If so, I'd console yourself with the fact that it's the way things are at the mo.
hallamblue
Player Valuation: £40m
They've been cost cutting for years. I used to work for a different company who they sub- contracted to. We were a private sector company and they are more public sector, so I didn't apply to work for them I was TUPEd across. Quite a few people have gone, some have taken redundancy and some have been made redundant. It's a very different culture.
I think given those circumstances I wouldn't beat yourself up about it too much mate.
I know a lad who works in adult education.
He was one of three managers, they made all the three of them interview for their jobs ( he got it ) and merged three jobs into one.
It's just the way things are mate, more for less.
Plus Unions / representitives are complete you toothless, so companies can more or less do what they want.
hallamblue
Player Valuation: £40m
Yes I know, I have friends who have been through the same process. I'm just feeling a bit used I suppose but now I have at least got the title, so I can either leverage more money or use it to leave.
Just a thought, but what do you want as a career after uni?
I may be wrong, but my reason for asking is I think that for certain professions and associated exams, what you get the degree in is more important than the grade when it comes to exemptions.
Just thinking out loud and trying to be positive.
larrygobfiend
Player Valuation: £40m
larrygobfiend
Player Valuation: £40m
I'm alright really mate. In fact, finding out has helped me and I've finally stopped me blaming myself.
Basically, I got on her work phone and she's been with some much older, rich fella from her work. He's recently divorced with 4 kids. Mental. Never judge a book by it's cover, I guess.
Damage limitation now mate
larrygobfiend
Player Valuation: £40m
The rules have changed now, mate. I was the amicable nice guy before, but now she's getting rinsed.
Go and see a decent brief.
Everything that you do or say from now on may affect the outcome.
I know you probably want holy vengeance right now, but a brief will look at the situation clinically and without emotion.
Remember, revenge is a dish best served cold
Armel
Player Valuation: £15m
Whatever you do make sure you do it fast and efficient so you can get quick closure. Don't know about the whole revenge thing since I am not certain this will help you in any way. The longer it drags on the longer she's still influencing your life.
First time i'v posted. Apologies to people on here with bigger issues than mine, i'm just hoping that writing/posting it, it will perhaps help me come to terms with it. Here goes, tomorrow morning I have to say goodbye for the final time to my 14 year old pet dog, and i'm in absolute bits. On top of this, I will then have to inform my 10 year old son what has happend to our dog (who he adores) and also then have to attempt to try to explain it to my other son, who isn't quite 3 yet. I have a couple of days off work, and i'm considering taking my son out of school for 2 days aswell. But this is also for selfish reasons, as i'm dreading being in the house alone.
Anyways, there it is.
Cheers.
Anyways, there it is.
Cheers.
jaycee
Player Valuation: £60m
Mate dogs are more than pets,theres no shame in being gutted about it,how you deal with telling the kids I dont know,some would just accept it other kids would be heart broken
Cheers. I have been priming my eldest for this, for some time. Although it will still hit him hard, he will eventually be okay. My youngest is going to be more difficult.