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Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

are there any meet ups on match days - would be beneficial to meet with other blues who are suffering?

It hasn't happened to my knowledge mate.

There's a lot of stuff goes on behind the scenes via PM's though.

I think the anonymity of this thread is one the reasons so many people come on here and open up.

Best left to the individual imo.

* not a bad idea though x
 
Just been out with mate of mine cycling. Stopped for a drink and got talking. Hes in a new relationship and telli g me his plans for next cple weeks/months. Got home and now on a downer, made up for him but now realising all the good times I had and would have had.
 
Just been out with mate of mine cycling. Stopped for a drink and got talking. Hes in a new relationship and telli g me his plans for next cple weeks/months. Got home and now on a downer, made up for him but now realising all the good times I had and would have had.

It's going to be tough to start with mate, but little by little, day by day it'll slowly get better.
 

It's going to be tough to start with mate, but little by little, day by day it'll slowly get better.
Question for you matey (or anybody ftm).
Tuesday afternoon, I sent a text message asking for her to reconsider before she gets too deep in her relationship. She phoned me, we had a good conversation but she said no. Ok thats fine, I tried. I know the person she is now seeing,believe it or not it really doesnt upset me about him, because of what and who he is. What has got my heading spinning and stomache churning is this - She phoned me asking what are or if my friends are talking about him? There is a strange coincedence why they are together - too long winded to explain.
My thoughts are, 1. She is getting at me.
2. She still wants to talk to me
3. She doesnt trust him - which I think is the case.

What do I do? Ive resisted the temptation to text/phone her for an at the moment, but this is hurting.
 

Question for you matey (or anybody ftm).
Tuesday afternoon, I sent a text message asking for her to reconsider before she gets too deep in her relationship. She phoned me, we had a good conversation but she said no. Ok thats fine, I tried. I know the person she is now seeing,believe it or not it really doesnt upset me about him, because of what and who he is. What has got my heading spinning and stomache churning is this - She phoned me asking what are or if my friends are talking about him? There is a strange coincedence why they are together - too long winded to explain.
My thoughts are, 1. She is getting at me.
2. She still wants to talk to me
3. She doesnt trust him - which I think is the case.

What do I do? Ive resisted the temptation to text/phone her for an at the moment, but this is hurting.

Or she's hedging her bets in the knowledge that she can go back to,you of it doesn't work out with the other fella.

She's got the power and control now mate.
 
Or she's hedging her bets in the knowledge that she can go back to,you of it doesn't work out with the other fella.

She's got the power and control now mate.
I really dont think so tbh mate. Ive told her I will take her back if it fails, but it would have to be soon and I think she knows that. She doesnt have a bad bone in her body. The only thing with her is she is stubborn, thats why I think there is no return.
 
I really dont think so tbh mate. Ive told her I will take her back if it fails, but it would have to be soon and I think she knows that. She doesnt have a bad bone in her body. The only thing with her is she is stubborn, thats why I think there is no return.

Having two fellas with feelings for her must be flattering, regardless of whether she doesn't have a bad bone in her body mate.
 
Had my 2nd councilling session yesterday. Went well, she's given me a few things to work on. It's about retraining my mind, my mind has worked a certain way for a long time so it needs retraining on certain things.

She compared it to going to the gym once a month and expecting to get fit. It's hard work to change your thought processes but it can be done with a lot of effort.
This shows strength mate, seriously.
 

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