Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

After my advocating exercise I decided to get up early this morning and walk the 10 miles to work, upon arriving at work I went to the bog for a piss and to get changed. I finished my p!ss and didn't immediately flush it, I then proceeded to unravel my shirt and the sleeve went straight in the toilet and covered it in p!ss.

So essentially exercise means you end up cleaning p!ss off your clothes and trying to dry them under the hand drier before reverting back to the sweat soaked t-shirt as the lesser of two evils.
Inspirational.
 

There is a good drama based on a true story on bbc iplayer called killed by my debt .

Very sad but shows the warning signs of not paying loans and fines on time . The stress and anxiety it can cause is horrific. I’ve been in the same situation when I was younger .

Anyone with problems with money don’t ignore it seek help from family or the likes of Stepchange don’t be too proud.

I went bankrupt years ago which I didn’t want to do and I was ashamed of it at the time but it helped me in the long run .

A few years after my credit got better but never used it for anything other than a phone contract . But when I had to quit my job I got sucked in by payday loans to help me . Luckily I got Stepchange involved and now I’m debt free .

I’ve been careless with money when I was younger and regret it. But the banks and credit card companies pray on young kids as soon as they turn 18 and I was one of the mugs who was stupid enough to be tempted by it all.

Totally my fault for taking it but those same company’s who want there money back are a big part of the problem especially with young kids throwing debt at them . Slimy fckers
 
After my advocating exercise I decided to get up early this morning and walk the 10 miles to work, upon arriving at work I went to the bog for a piss and to get changed. I finished my p!ss and didn't immediately flush it, I then proceeded to unravel my shirt and the sleeve went straight in the toilet and covered it in p!ss.

So essentially exercise means you end up cleaning p!ss off your clothes and trying to dry them under the hand drier before reverting back to the sweat soaked t-shirt as the lesser of two evils.

I bet you`re popular in work today ;)
 

There is a good drama based on a true story on bbc iplayer called killed by my debt .

Very sad but shows the warning signs of not paying loans and fines on time . The stress and anxiety it can cause is horrific. I’ve been in the same situation when I was younger .

Anyone with problems with money don’t ignore it seek help from family or the likes of Stepchange don’t be too proud.

I went bankrupt years ago which I didn’t want to do and I was ashamed of it at the time but it helped me in the long run .

A few years after my credit got better but never used it for anything other than a phone contract . But when I had to quit my job I got sucked in by payday loans to help me . Luckily I got Stepchange involved and now I’m debt free .

I’ve been careless with money when I was younger and regret it. But the banks and credit card companies pray on young kids as soon as they turn 18 and I was one of the mugs who was stupid enough to be tempted by it all.

Totally my fault for taking it but those same company’s who want there money back are a big part of the problem especially with young kids throwing debt at them . Slimy fckers
Same thing happened to my arl fella. My brother got him into about 20k worth of debt. Hated him for it.
 
Same thing happened to my arl fella. My brother got him into about 20k worth of debt. Hated him for it.

The government are set to ban £100 a go gaming machines in the bookies and bring the max bet down to £2 a go.

Yet the betting industry claims that this will be the near ruination of the industry.

Even though the same fella, who used to bet £100 a time, will still bet the same once it`s brought in, he`ll just have to do it fifty times now, rather than once.

Is it any wonder why so many people end up in massive debt ???????
 
The government are set to ban £100 a go gaming machines in the bookies and bring the max bet down to £2 a go.

Yet the betting industry claims that this will be the near ruination of the industry.

Even though the same fella, who used to bet £100 a time, will still bet the same once it`s brought in, he`ll just have to do it fifty times now, rather than once.

Is it any wonder why so many people end up in massive debt ???????
"Gamble responsibly"...what a joke,that's the industries answer to the people digging themselves into oblivion?How about they are forced to do credit checks before they let people onto their sites.Never happen though,just like payday loans,another way to fleece the most vulnerable in society.
 
There is a good drama based on a true story on bbc iplayer called killed by my debt .

Very sad but shows the warning signs of not paying loans and fines on time . The stress and anxiety it can cause is horrific. I’ve been in the same situation when I was younger .

Anyone with problems with money don’t ignore it seek help from family or the likes of Stepchange don’t be too proud.

I went bankrupt years ago which I didn’t want to do and I was ashamed of it at the time but it helped me in the long run .

A few years after my credit got better but never used it for anything other than a phone contract . But when I had to quit my job I got sucked in by payday loans to help me . Luckily I got Stepchange involved and now I’m debt free .

I’ve been careless with money when I was younger and regret it. But the banks and credit card companies pray on young kids as soon as they turn 18 and I was one of the mugs who was stupid enough to be tempted by it all.

Totally my fault for taking it but those same company’s who want there money back are a big part of the problem especially with young kids throwing debt at them . Slimy fckers
Whatever happened to locking up loan sharks?
 

Hi All,

I've posted a lot in here before about minor depression and constantly feeling like im stuck in a rut etc

Just wanted to speak about my life the past few weeks in the hope talking feels like a weight off.

Me and the Mrs has our first kid on 19/04, he's 6 weeks old today. I was so excited throughout her pregnancy, this little person who would rely on us so much I would be full of purpose.

Well the reality seems to have gone the other way, me and the Mrs are arguing constantly, I am working full time, and as soon as I get home I do all of the housework, cooking cleaning shopping etc etc etc, by the time all this is done every night it is like 10pm if not later, and then she goes to bed with the little man, and basically demands I sit with her until like 11/11.30 to keep her company while she puts him down. Then I go to sleep on the couch as a) she cant bear my snoring, b) in her words what is the point me getting woken up when he wants feeding (she is breastfeeding) c) when I hear him stirring in the night I cannot sleep for fear he is going to wake up

The last week or so, she has really started to resent this life of mine she has created in her head, its like she thinks she is in this alone, and me going to work and doing all the housework is me living the life of riley (and I think at 11.30 when I go to sleep on the couch she assumes I am having some sort of party)

Little does she know that I hate this life at the minute

So she has started saying things to me like she feels like a single parent, (yeah, one whose house is always clean and stocked with food magically) and that because I leave her every night (my son is not going to want to know me)

We are now at the point where we argue so much every day its like we are on the verge of divorce

I am sat in work everyday not wanting to go home.

In short I feel like this baby has ruined our marriage, (although i love him, i sort of resent him for how its all turned out) and seeing as she is the only person I have (I don't speak to my family anymore) if this does fall apart I can see no reason I want to exist anymore

Sorry if this doesn't read right, just sort of pouring my thoughts out as they come

I don't really know what to do, im totally lost
 
Hi All,

I've posted a lot in here before about minor depression and constantly feeling like im stuck in a rut etc

Just wanted to speak about my life the past few weeks in the hope talking feels like a weight off.

Me and the Mrs has our first kid on 19/04, he's 6 weeks old today. I was so excited throughout her pregnancy, this little person who would rely on us so much I would be full of purpose.

Well the reality seems to have gone the other way, me and the Mrs are arguing constantly, I am working full time, and as soon as I get home I do all of the housework, cooking cleaning shopping etc etc etc, by the time all this is done every night it is like 10pm if not later, and then she goes to bed with the little man, and basically demands I sit with her until like 11/11.30 to keep her company while she puts him down. Then I go to sleep on the couch as a) she cant bear my snoring, b) in her words what is the point me getting woken up when he wants feeding (she is breastfeeding) c) when I hear him stirring in the night I cannot sleep for fear he is going to wake up

The last week or so, she has really started to resent this life of mine she has created in her head, its like she thinks she is in this alone, and me going to work and doing all the housework is me living the life of riley (and I think at 11.30 when I go to sleep on the couch she assumes I am having some sort of party)

Little does she know that I hate this life at the minute

So she has started saying things to me like she feels like a single parent, (yeah, one whose house is always clean and stocked with food magically) and that because I leave her every night (my son is not going to want to know me)

We are now at the point where we argue so much every day its like we are on the verge of divorce

I am sat in work everyday not wanting to go home.

In short I feel like this baby has ruined our marriage, (although i love him, i sort of resent him for how its all turned out) and seeing as she is the only person I have (I don't speak to my family anymore) if this does fall apart I can see no reason I want to exist anymore

Sorry if this doesn't read right, just sort of pouring my thoughts out as they come

I don't really know what to do, im totally lost

Have you tried to have a proper chat with her about how you're both feeling?

I was in a similar boat after our first, although possibly not quite as bad and we'd just argue over tiny things and they built into full on fallouts. Tiredness will be playing a part as well I imagine so it makes things seem far worse.

When we finally had a talk I realised that she was lonely and feeling generally unloved, we had a small circle of friends and none of them had kids and they were doing their own thing, so she got isolated and it made her feel terrible. I appreciate you're feeling terrible as well but she probably is, she's just not expressing it in a particularly constructive way.

Have a serious talk and just ask how she is, if it's possible get her to do some mother and baby groups or get her to meet you for lunch a couple of days a week if that's possible, just something to break up the day and stop her feeling alone.

Hope you sort things out mate, it definitely gets easier but it can take a few months to adjust to a completely different way of life and additional responsibilities.
 


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