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Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

It's time for another installment of me lamenting about my life woes. I will steer clear of the heavier stuff. Dealing with a chaotic living situation, I've been living in a cruddy upper unit in a house for a couple years. I had two roommates in Dec. One of them told me his intentions to move so we replaced him with a grad student who would be moving out in June. So in February my longterm roommate told me with week before the end of the month he was leaving and the old roommate was coming back.

Cut to a week ago the new roommate who lived with before and had no issues went berserk from drug use of some kind. Have no idea only thought he partook in smoking herb which is still discouraged in the house. Whole brouhaha ends up in the hospital his parents move his stuff out, still hasn't contacted me. So I had an agreement with the slumlord that everyone is supposed to be out in May which leaves in a serious bind as what reputable person wants a three month arrangement.

So to add to my further plight my remaining roommate tells me he is moving out at the end of the month which Was yesterday, so he gave me a respectable one days notice lol. So now I need to fill to two rooms with the three month condition and the place is rundown as the landlord is crazy neglectful. She expects me to orchestrate the search. I want to move out immediately obviously but with my health issues I dont have the best finances and look that marketable to potential renters. I'm incredibly stressed and conflicted especially if I do bring someone in I don't want to abandon them like I was. Also when the longterm roommate left in feburary I got saddled with all the bills.
So my situation is not ideal just looking for any advice and a place to gripe. Apologies if this is annoying.
 

Curtis said:
It's time for another installment of me lamenting about my life woes. I will steer clear of the heavier stuff. Dealing with a chaotic living situation, I've been living in a cruddy upper unit in a house for a couple years. I had two roommates in Dec. One of them told me his intentions to move so we replaced him with a grad student who would be moving out in June. So in February my longterm roommate told me with week before the end of the month he was leaving and the old roommate was coming back.

Cut to a week ago the new roommate who lived with before and had no issues went berserk from drug use of some kind. Have no idea only thought he partook in smoking herb which is still discouraged in the house. Whole brouhaha ends up in the hospital his parents move his stuff out, still hasn't contacted me. So I had an agreement with the slumlord that everyone is supposed to be out in May which leaves in a serious bind as what reputable person wants a three month arrangement.

So to add to my further plight my remaining roommate tells me he is moving out at the end of the month which Was yesterday, so he gave me a respectable one days notice lol. So now I need to fill to two rooms with the three month condition and the place is rundown as the landlord is crazy neglectful. She expects me to orchestrate the search. I want to move out immediately obviously but with my health issues I dont have the best finances and look that marketable to potential renters. I'm incredibly stressed and conflicted especially if I do bring someone in I don't want to abandon them like I was. Also when the longterm roommate left in feburary I got saddled with all the bills.
So my situation is not ideal just looking for any advice and a place to gripe. Apologies if this is annoying.
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Do you have any friends or family who can help out, even if it’s only in some form of temporary capacity ?
 
matty1878 said:
well with me it seems one thing triggers a million things and then my anxiety is sky high

anyone else think when one thing feels like a million your like why etc
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I don’t worry about one thing if I can find a hundred things to worry about - usually in the middle of the night. One thing that works for me is listening to podcasts or music also relaxation or mindfulness. Do you have anyone to talk over your worries with? Others on here will be able to offer some good advice. Best wishes?
 
COYBL25 said:
Do you have any friends or family who can help out, even if it’s only in some form of temporary capacity ?
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Unfortunately no my family is pretty scattered, my mom lives in Hawaii and my Dad south South Carolina and most of my old friends are back in Western Pennsylvania, and I haven't talked to them. I live in Cleveland currently I posted a message on FBI asking if anyone knew about living situations and it was crickets no response at all.
 
Curtis said:
It's time for another installment of me lamenting about my life woes. I will steer clear of the heavier stuff. Dealing with a chaotic living situation, I've been living in a cruddy upper unit in a house for a couple years. I had two roommates in Dec. One of them told me his intentions to move so we replaced him with a grad student who would be moving out in June. So in February my longterm roommate told me with week before the end of the month he was leaving and the old roommate was coming back.

Cut to a week ago the new roommate who lived with before and had no issues went berserk from drug use of some kind. Have no idea only thought he partook in smoking herb which is still discouraged in the house. Whole brouhaha ends up in the hospital his parents move his stuff out, still hasn't contacted me. So I had an agreement with the slumlord that everyone is supposed to be out in May which leaves in a serious bind as what reputable person wants a three month arrangement.

So to add to my further plight my remaining roommate tells me he is moving out at the end of the month which Was yesterday, so he gave me a respectable one days notice lol. So now I need to fill to two rooms with the three month condition and the place is rundown as the landlord is crazy neglectful. She expects me to orchestrate the search. I want to move out immediately obviously but with my health issues I dont have the best finances and look that marketable to potential renters. I'm incredibly stressed and conflicted especially if I do bring someone in I don't want to abandon them like I was. Also when the longterm roommate left in feburary I got saddled with all the bills.
So my situation is not ideal just looking for any advice and a place to gripe. Apologies if this is annoying.
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Not annoying at all so no need to apologise, gripe away that’s what this thread is for, bottling it up does no good. Although I can’t offer any practical advice I’m sure others on here will be able to. Best wishes?
 
Gwladysover said:
I don’t worry about one thing if I can find a hundred things to worry about - usually in the middle of the night. One thing that works for me is listening to podcasts or music also relaxation or mindfulness. Do you have anyone to talk over your worries with? Others on here will be able to offer some good advice. Best wishes?
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i have a lot of mental health support mate
thanx but recently since i came out of hospital it’s like loads stuff have got to me

thankyou mate
 

Curtis said:
Unfortunately no my family is pretty scattered, my mom lives in Hawaii and my Dad south South Carolina and most of my old friends are back in Western Pennsylvania, and I haven't talked to them. I live in Cleveland currently I posted a message on FBI asking if anyone knew about living situations and it was crickets no response at all.
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Hope you get sorted soon mate, if you've no luck try one of these they're all Cleveland based, most of them can help with housing or even try NEOCH, ? Good luck and God bless, Ps. You don't need to be a catholic to use them or to get help from them.
West Side Catholic Center
Cleveland, OH, United States
Closed ⋅ Opens 8:30AM Wed
CALL
DIRECTIONS
Catholic Charities
Cleveland, OH, United States
CALL
DIRECTIONS
Catholic Charities, Diocese of Cleveland
Cleveland, OH, United States
Closes soon ⋅ 5PM
CALL
DIRECTIONS
Catholic Charity Hispanic Office
Cleveland, OH, United States
CALL
DIRECTIONS
Catholic Charities Diocese
Cleveland, OH, United States
CALL
DIRECTIONS
Bishop William M. Cosgrove Center
Cleveland, OH, United States
Closed ⋅ Opens 8AM Wed
CALL
DIRECTIONS
Catholic Charities
Cleveland, OH, United States
Open ⋅ Closes 8:01PM
CALL
DIRECTIONS
Catholic Charities Head Start St. Philip
Cleveland, OH, United States
Closes soon ⋅ 5PM
CALL
DIRECTIONS
Catholic Charities Adoption Services
Cleveland, OH, United States
Closes soon ⋅ 5PM
CALL
DIRECTIONS
Catholic Social Services Cuyahoga
Cleveland, OH, United States
CALL
DIRECTIONS
Catholic Charities Head Start King Kennedy
Cleveland, OH, United States
Open ⋅ Closes 6PM
CALL
DIRECTIONS
Catholic Charities Head Start St. Ignatius
Cleveland, OH, United States
Closes soon ⋅ 5PM
CALL
DIRECTIONS
St. Philip Neri Family Center
Cleveland, OH, United States
Open ⋅ Closes 4:30AM Wed
CALL
DIRECTIONS
Catholic Charities Head Start Quincy Place
Cleveland, OH, United States
Open ⋅ Closes 6PM
CALL
DIRECTIONS
Catholic Charities Head Start Rainbow Terrace
Cleveland, OH, United States
Open ⋅ Closes 6PM
CALL
DIRECTIONS
Catholic Community Connection
Cleveland, OH, United States
CALL
DIRECTIONS
Catholic Charities System of Care
Euclid, OH, United States
Closes soon ⋅ 4:30PM
CALL
DIRECTIONS
Joseph House
Cleveland, OH, United States
CALL
DIRECTIONS
Catholic Charities Head Start Parkview
Parma, OH, United States
Closes soon ⋅ 5PM
CALL
DIRECTIONS
Sisters of Charity Foundation of Cleveland
Cleveland, OH, United States
Closes soon ⋅ 5PM
CALL
DIRECTIONS
 

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