The most sickening part of yesterday's match, which I have now long mulled over is, is that it must be quickening the departure of Rom.
This young, exceptional talent (gem of a player) is giving his all and scoring goals to boot, yet we are consistently unable to see out a victory.
At the kick off once the fourth had gone in, his body language said everything. Disheartened, disenchanted and utterly frustrated and fairly so.
We've arguably amassed one of, if not the most talent squad in a generation but we are at risk of losing it if we not change our approach soon.
Some may argue that Clattenburg was the reason for not getting any points, and to an extent he is with the poor decision for the penalty.
Nevertheless, when looking at the bigger picture we are all seeing a reoccurring theme: constant mistakes at the back; poor defensively overall.
At 3-2 and with ten minutes to go, Martinez should have been smart and adaptable enough to tighten things up; simply see out the result.
Put simply we let Stoke back in to the game with our defensive naivety just like at Norwich and Bournemouth. Clattenburg just exacerbated that.
Ten minutes of tight and nasty football with everyone closing down and making solid banks of four/five would have gained the victory we deserved.
The same story with conceding easily against Palace and Leicester after dominating possession and copious amounts of chances to gain victory.
And that's what is the most annoying aspect that after each game we say the same things, about the same problems, yet have the same outcome.
Howard makes a mistake... lots of possession with no dominance... failing to take chances... caught on the break... not closing down. Any more?
They'd make an amazing Everton bingo game! Let's see who can get a line with acceptable excuses which have emerged during a game.
And unfortunately, especially with our incoming run, I just cannot see things getting any better time soon as we seem unable to adjust and learn.
Nice fact about Stoke as well: they'd scored six away from home all season before yesterday conceding shed loads. Puts it all into perspective!