So you have very low expectations of your children? You seriously don't have any expectations for your children? You are happy with bringing up a stay at home mom at the age of 21 to 4 kids?
For me, my family name is very important and as my children will inherit my name, it's very important they live up to the family standards. I'm not going to have low expectations and allow my children ending up failures.
I can see why you moved to the Middle East now. Probably have "no gay hurray" parties with your neighbours.