Amazing people to be honest Fred, MIL is 60 and FIL is 66, fostered all their lives and gave everyone they could a chance in life, no conditions attached. Three of the "foster" kids are still there now, two well into their 20s and one 19, its home for everyone with kids of foster kids coming for overnight visits etc. FIL worked for 47 years at the same job before retiring 5 1/2 days a week, every week, i only found out the week before he retired that the 1/2 day Saturday morning was overtime which he just always did as part of the routine. He was diagnosed with very early Prostate Cancer about a year ago but thankfully it was just a matter of wiping the prostate out and that was that, no need for further treatment. I agree completely with you, its their time now and they did head for Spain for 3 weeks before Christmas when my FIL retired, so hopefully once they get over this bump they can get back to what they had planned. Talks of buying a place in Portugal were getting stronger recently so we will see what happens.
Im living north of Cork city between Blarney and a town called Mallow, in the countryside around where my wife is from. I am originally from the city though. Castletownbere and that whole West Cork area is absolutely beautiful and a world away from bust city life, the North Atlantic Way along the western sea board really is worth a visit if anyone ever got a chance. For me teh county is so big (in Irish terms) i would be in Dublin in the same time it would take me to get to Castletownbere but i know which one i would prefer to do anyday