Messymascot's faith in humanity and ginger safe haven

[Barnfred 55]

Morning everyone hope everyone is well on this grey morning.

I had a great catch up with them thanks. Think I'm having a night in tonight to rest.

Fred don't be sorry about crying it's a release for you. Far better than mine where I snap everyone's head off.

I might be on here through the day just depending on how I feel hopefully I'll be OK and we can chat football.

Catch you all later.

Mate. Every time I start feeling sorry for myself I think of you and very quickly pull myself together. Your strength inspires me.

I cry quite a bit and do not confuse this with feeling sorry for myself. It's perfectly natural as I just miss her being around me. The episodes don't last long and I usually feel better afterwards.

 

[Sassy Colombian]

Morning Messy and all. Hope you managed a peaceful sleep. I had a bit of a coughing episode when I first went to bed last night, and feared the worst given all the close personal contact I have had recently. But I had a good nights sleep and am fine this morning

Just about to get up and have a coffee and pastry. Have a shower, put some more washing on, then go for a walk and maybe meet up with some of Cals workmates.

Salmon fillet and salad for lunch followed by fruit, then have a look at some of the mountains of paperwork I have this afternoon.

Almost feel like this is day 1 of my new life. Not gonna lie but it made me cry writing that last bit.

Good morning to you as well @Barnfred 55 and all the fellow Blues that are always here.

Day 1 of your new life may sound intimidating but just take it one day at a time and be gentle with yourself and your feelings. You will get through this but it will take time.

Salmon fillet and a salad is one of my favorite lunches, enjoy it!

 

[Barnfred 55]

@Barnfred Hope you are OK. This will be the tough times when everyone goes back to their daily lives and yours has been completely turned on it's head. Crying is good, better than keeping it all in. Sending hugs x

Crying is a good release as is coming on here.

 

[Bluetintedspecs]

Morning Messy and all. Hope you managed a peaceful sleep. I had a bit of a coughing episode when I first went to bed last night, and feared the worst given all the close personal contact I have had recently. But I had a good nights sleep and am fine this morning

Just about to get up and have a coffee and pastry. Have a shower, put some more washing on, then go for a walk and maybe meet up with some of Cals workmates.

Salmon fillet and salad for lunch followed by fruit, then have a look at some of the mountains of paperwork I have this afternoon.

Almost feel like this is day 1 of my new life. Not gonna lie but it made me cry writing that last bit.

One day at a time mate. I'd say make sure you eat, but it sounds like you've got that covered.

As for crying, cry away and let it all out. I almost felt like crying watching our sorry excuse for a football team on Saturday. If you need to talk, just pop in here.

 

[messymascot]

Crying is a good release as is coming on here.

This thread and the depression thread have helped me connect with so many good people.

Crying is a good release but I don't because I'm terrified I won't stop if I start.

 

[Barnfred 55]

One day at a time mate. I'd say make sure you eat, but it sounds like you've got that covered.

As for crying, cry away and let it all out. I almost felt like crying watching our sorry excuse for a football team on Saturday. If you need to talk, just pop in here.

My mates have banned me from watching the match with them. I had a 100% defeat record when I was back up in Liverpool ?

 

[Bluetintedspecs]

Morning everyone hope everyone is well on this grey morning.

I had a great catch up with them thanks. Think I'm having a night in tonight to rest.

Fred don't be sorry about crying it's a release for you. Far better than mine where I snap everyone's head off.

I might be on here through the day just depending on how I feel hopefully I'll be OK and we can chat football.

Catch you all later.

Glad you had a good time yesterday and you managed to survive your friend's dodgy steering skills. I feel a bit gullty saying this, but it's lovely and sunny again down here. I'm almost squinting from the sunlight as I type this.

Probably a good idea to take it easy today after all the socialising you've been doing this week. Rest up and look after yourself. Speak soon.

 

[messymascot]

Happy Wednesday @messymascot I hope the gray morning turns into a bright afternoon.

That’s great that you had a nice time with your mates, I was thinking yesterday of the many people that have wanted to see you and spent time with you these past few weeks and speaks very highly about how much you are loved.

A night of rest is needed at times, I’m sure it takes a lot os strength to do all these outings so enjoy the relaxation of being at home. Xx

I think its just like this round here everyone knows everyone. Sometimes it makes things difficult when you want space but it's nice knowing you have that support.

My sister is coming tonight but we normally just both play on our phones but it's nice having that company.

 

[Bluetintedspecs]

One for all you gingers.

 

[Sassy Colombian]

I think its just like this round here everyone knows everyone. Sometimes it makes things difficult when you want space but it's nice knowing you have that support.

My sister is coming tonight but we normally just both play on our phones but it's nice having that company.

Having the support at home and here shows that there is a lot of people that care about you but I am sure it can also get overwhelming when you need some space.

Sister time it is always good too. I’m actually having my older brother over for dinner tonight along with my mum. He is moving back to Colombia so it is our goodbye dinner. So hopefully the paella comes out well. Wish me luck, I probably will need it.

 

[Barnfred 55]

I think its just like this round here everyone knows everyone. Sometimes it makes things difficult when you want space but it's nice knowing you have that support.

My sister is coming tonight but we normally just both play on our phones but it's nice having that company.

Silence doesn't need to be uncomfortable mate, especially when you're with somebody you know so well.

After nearly 2 weeks of constant company and talking it was actually quite nice to spend some me time last night.

 

[anjelikaferrett]

Having the support at home and here shows that there is a lot of people that care about you but I am sure it can also get overwhelming when you need some space.

Sister time it is always good too. I’m actually having my older brother over for dinner tonight along with my mum. He is moving back to Colombia so it is our goodbye dinner. So hopefully the paella comes out well. Wish me luck, I probably will need it.

Having read your posts in the cooking tips thread I have no doubt it will be amazing. Have a lovely time.
Siblings are special. Nobody else has those same shared experiences.

 

[messymascot]

Having the support at home and here shows that there is a lot of people that care about you but I am sure it can also get overwhelming when you need some space.

Sister time it is always good too. I’m actually having my older brother over for dinner tonight along with my mum. He is moving back to Colombia so it is our goodbye dinner. So hopefully the paella comes out well. Wish me luck, I probably will need it.

I'd your sister coming as well?

You don't luck you will be fine! If you are really worried have something ready in reserve.

Having so many people can be a blessing or a curse. I like the variance but scared I might miss someone out.

Even though you won't need it I wish you much luck with making the paella.

 

[degsy]

This thread and the depression thread have helped me connect with so many good people.

Crying is a good release but I don't because I'm terrified I won't stop if I start.

You'll stop when you've finished and ready to - don't worry about it.
You get up, take the standing 8 count - box on.

 

[Earwigjoe]

You'll stop when you've finished and ready to - don't worry about it.
You get up, take the standing 8 count - box on.

Well said @degsy. Good afternoon @messymascot and @Barnfred 55 and all fellow blues, hope everyone has a great day. God Bless.