You're spot on about the shape of the entire employment market changing in response to women in the workplace and the move to a technological society. Things are absolutely not the same as the 60s or 70s. One major change technology has brought is that it has completely done away with clerk-type jobs as computers have taken over the filing system. That alone was a huge portion of the job market that is gone forever.
As to how you afford childcare on low wages and then feed, clothe, pay bills etc. You shouldn't be going and having kids you can't afford in the first place. No sympathy from me for that because it is terrible on the kids and is preventable in so many ways.
You pay for your education by taking a loan with the idea being that your increased earnings as a result of your education and acquired skills will allow you to pay off that loan and still profit. You work as well as going and getting an education to support yourself.
As for the rest to see only McJobs point, if the people working those jobs are not qualified for any sort of skilled labour and are not willing to go and pay for training to gain those skills then yes they're going to be stuck in McJobs. I do think a living wage is a necessity, and that nobody should be paid under that. At the same time though I like cheap stuff, we all do, and guess what fuels those low prices? Low wages for unskilled workers. You say that society is serving business alone, but it is the consumer's(society's) desire for low prices that has contributed to the mess we find ourselves in.
I agree with you that the way the capitalist economy work is by increasing the wealth of the rich at the expense of the poor. It absolutely does and it was absolutely designed to do that. It's not going to change though is it, not unless there is full on global communist/socialist revolution and a reclaiming of the wealth. It isn't new either, money and wealth have been in control of societies from the very get go.
You say that for every me there are hundreds that have had no opportunity and it just isn't true. They have had the same opportunities I have had for the most part and they have made the choices that led them to not take that opportunity. There has to be some personal accountability for your situation in life. If you want to sit around waiting for society to turn into what you want it to be instead of living in the one you find yourself in you are going to be very unhappy.
Let's see. I don't know your age, but I would hazard a guess you display a living naivety.
Clerk type jobs, filing etc, replaced by computers, check. What about automation in industries, in production? What jobs replaced those lost?
Childcare. As I noted, the changes have happened to people who had steady work, had families on that basis, took mortgages out, built foundations for a future, if everybody held back in fear of unemployment there would only be you left and the 60 million immigrants needed to maintain a country. A very fickle and futile approach to family life.
Paying for education. Do you understand the industry of student loans companies, debt selling, changes of contracts? Exactly the same as the system that brought about the crash of 2008. Then there's the insecurity now of job stability. The trend in pay is downwards so you don't reach the point of completion until retirement age, whenever that may be in the future. The ability to pay is being denied to the poorest, if you would like some further 'education' personally I would suggest you read into the changes in New Orleans post disaster, because that is the coming model.
Cheap stuff and McJobs. We'd all like cheap stuff but I'll give you an example of how cheap stuff works. Children you don't see work 12 hour shifts to make the clthes you wear. Cheap food isn't food, it is detrimental to health. There was a chapter in Toffler's 3rd Wave iirc called the death of permanence, how nothing is made to last, no product is designed for longevity, it is made to be cheap, have a short shelf life and need replacing sooner, which fuels the economy. It also depletes resources quicker. Finite resources. Cheap is only cheap at the point if sale. It still costs a lot but to someone else other than you, someone's life, health and the future wellbeing of the global population. But then they could always save their one dollar a day wage for an education couldn't they?
Sitting around waiting for society. Consumerism. Read about it. It is part ofvthe capitalist model, it creates these people's situation, it needs them to be in that situation, without them it collapses. Understand that, you're on on the way to understanding the system.
Because the system is what there is. You have a role to play, we all have a role to play. There hasvto be layers to support those at the top controlling it. It's a pyramid. It needs people, as you have displayed, to feel safe as long as there are layers below them, supporting them, and it generates your deference to those above.
This system hasn't always been the way. Money hasn't always been in control, it needs to be implemented. If you understood the ancient hierarchical societies they were all mutual familial and community based structures whereby those thst could would look after those that couldn't, children, the old and the sick, until someone thought ' I know I'll put a value on a thing and say it is more valuable than life, then I'll create greed and fear among them. Then I can fet them to work for me'. Thus began capitalism, and it all started with s lazy b'stard who wouldn't pull his weight or care about anyone else but himself. Ironic that isn't it?
There'll be a point in your life when you realise that the best things in life aren't 'things' but life itself and giving a flying one for the life of another, if you can afford it.