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Cheers mate, I can’t say we’re great friends at the minute. More drama today with her trying to wind me up over stuff. But I kept calm and just noted it all down afterwards. Wasn’t easy like, she obviously knows me well enough to know what winds me up. One of my kids has already said to me...

Sorry to hear that mate, I hope it stays amicable for you.

That's awful and I've heard a few people have similar horror stories, hence me worrying when she's been threatening me with similar. I hope it works out for both of your mates.

That’s the mad thing now though. Cos of all way she’s been treating me since she announced it all, it was tough and I’m sure it’ll be tough again and get worse, but now I just want to move on and sort it out. Whereas she keeps coming back to argue about everything from the entire marriage...

She did, nothing official as yet but it’s happening. Take your pick of reasons, it’s different every time she speaks. I’ve not cheated or done anything like that, a few things in her life haven’t worked out as she’d hoped and it’s apparently my fault, despite me having no involvement. Is that...

I hadn’t thought of that. It’s possible I guess although I suspect it’s more likely a group of women giving her advice. She’s good at making herself seem like a victim even when the truth is the opposite. I suspect she’s pushing for a coercive controller type, cos she’s dropped in a few hints...

He’s wasted his career sitting on his contract collecting big money at Everton. He’s by no means the first player to do that here either. I wonder if he’ll ever regret not taking a pay cut but playing regularly at his proper level. They should make him play in the 23s for the season, see how...

In all fairness to the lad, I’d likely be wanting to leave as well if I were him. Imagine being a striker who thrives off crosses in a team with wingers and full backs who can’t cross a ball between them. Not even one decent cross per game! Under Carlo, DCL scored goals as he was played...

Good luck to him if she has.

Is that why everyone keeps saying don’t move out? She’s pushing me to move out all the time. We’re both named so not sure why it would affect it. But obviously does. I wouldn’t move out without the kids anyway. Even with 50/50 apparently I still need to pay a decent amount a month. I looked...

Thanks, I’ll go with the advice on here and look for one first thing. See what legal help I can get.

Thanks, I pay for everything to be fair, even send her money each month. Annoys me a bit cos she seems to spend all her money and now when we come to put it in the pot to be shared, it’ll be my savings to be shared, cos she spent all hers. Is what it is I guess.

Cheers mate. I suspect someone has told her something along these lines as I’ve noticed recently she’s deliberately trying to wind me up and provoke me, getting in my face for no reason as well, I’ve never touched her in that way but it’s like she’s trying to get me to if that makes sense. I...

Can you appeal stuff like that? That’s my worry she keeps saying it’ll cost me thousands to go to court and I’ll end up with nothing. Does the judge just hear both sides and then say a % .

Cheers mate, looks like I need to find a good solicitor for this.

Thanks I started a diary a while back as her behaviour became increasingly erratic especially with the kids. I’ll start adding more detail as it happens. Things aren’t good now though, one minute they will be but the next she’s on her phone and then asking how much my car is worth!

Cheers mate, I’ll check it out. Yeah she initiated it, but in fairness it’s been coming for a few years, house in both names, but I’ve got a good pension, savings etc. and she’s claiming she’s entitled to everything. She’s got very little bar her share in the house to add to the pot. So it’s...

Cheers mate, that’s the worry, she’s on all sorts of Facebook groups and getting advice from everywhere. There’s loads of help out there for women. Every search I do comes up with help for women. Suddenly everything is all my fault and she’s claiming she’s entitled to all sorts.

Anyone been through a divorce in the UK? Where did you find help etc. I’ve seen a few sites but everything for men seems to ask for money upfront and everything for women is free! It’s also mostly about getting access to the kids but I shouldn’t have an issue with that part hopefully...

IF - Not the film I was expecting. UP vibes for the first part, then sort of slows right down in the middle and almost doesn't know what to do, before a big emotional shift for the end. If they improved on the middle it could have been a really good film. Still worth watching, but it's not...