I don’t think insulting people for their views is the right way to approach this, we don’t know each others mental states and we should be able to debate something, however controversial, without reverting to name calling, let’s try to understand why someone feels / thinks the way they do and not berate them. Having a debate in writing is tricky due to the tone not being understood.
Whether we like it or not, there are two key components that conflict directly. The human element and the financial. It’s simple to say that, in such awful circumstances, money should not form part of the equation but it does and by the millions and the real irony here is that his road to recovery could hinge very much on money.
For example, we saw the awful tragedy of Emiliano Sala who suffered the worst possible fate on his way to Cardiff. Years later what has it resorted to, legal battles over money. It’s life, ugly as that may feel to people.
The agreement we have with Spurs will prohibit Dele from getting a decent run of games, if he’s able to do so, as we simply don’t have the money and even if we did, I’m not sure it would represent a wise investment.
To just pay the money to help him, as has been suggested, isn’t right to me either, there are many people who have been through similar and worse and I’d sooner see the club donate the money to help many people affected by abuse and addictions.
In terms of Dele specifically, if the experts belief is that his recovery would benefit from playing football then perhaps his representatives could reach an agreement with Spurs to deal with the first instalment between them? Dele’s mental health is the real priority here and if it’s me, I would pay whatever I could afford to get the help I needed and to provide the best possible environment for me to feel happy.
Alternatively, there may be some sort of agreement to be had with the Premier League to disallow a negotiated payment made by us to Spurs from the P&L, given the unique situation?