The thing is it is like watching your absolute life long best mate going through a crisis.
His dull but very stable and ultimately happy marriage ended after 13 years - his life left him for a billionaire but it ended badly.
He couldn't believe his luck when a Spanish student moved in, they had parties every night in the first year but she would never do her share of the boring stuff like emptying the bin and kept going on about philosophy but never went to the lectures.
He won the lottery and binned her
He needed someone to build a new house and asked a no nonsense Dutch architect, who was a famous model in her day, to move in. She had done some decent work on the south coast after a project in Spain had failed badly. For some reason the architect forgot the foundations and roof and just kept ordering bathroom suites. It became clear the relationship was over and neither of them actually were that bothered about eachother.
So he went internet dating, dismissing Fat Samantha straight away, she'd been around the block and had a string of failed relationships. Friends and family warned him off but after the third flood in 7 days he decided she would at least act as a sandbag. She turned up with a liter of supermarket vodka, a half eaten meat feast and a carton of cigarettes and he is about to welcome her in.
Would you warn him off?