I'm not being horrible mate, but why would it be wrong for fans to think we are special or unique?
I don't think that's what's at play here though. What's at play is there is a clear and quite unique culture that exists at Everton. Liverpool is a unique place and so is the club. For an American, think the New York of England. People even thrive or crumble under that gaze.
I dont think thats us saying we are special, but there has to be an acknowledgement of the basis if the clubs outlook. However much you or I might want them too, the supporters are also not going to drastically shift their thinking.