Fair enough it seemed like I was being picked on as explained in my post I suffered and my family suffered bullying -
Psychological bullying
Abusive bullying
I got a bit wound up - never would I report anyone for an opinion, but telling people to go to bed if you think thats acceptable fine.
I can't speak for others Joe, but I believe it's a Carlos reference, as it became almost his catchphrase when he felt people were being a bit naughty. I don't think it's meant with any malice. Carlos is as much a part of this place as you are yourself, and it's the idiosyncratic characters that make it what it is.