..I heard a quote last week that "everything said before the word 'but' is horse sh**".
Yip.
When a person is addressing you, disregard all you hear or read before the person inserts the word "but".
Same when someone says "no offence"......what they are really saying is "I am going to say sommat which I think might offend you but I don't care.....I am saying it anyway".
And that example also contains the word "but" lol