Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

[blueloon]

Indeed it will. I often recant situations from my past with my kids in order to show the similarities between their issues & mine from when I was their age. I generally end up with the same old chestnut; "If only I could put this 'aged' brain onto those younger shoulders of mineone!

Yep me too, my kids regularly turn to me for advice about jobs etc knowing I've got an old head on my shoulders ...... trouble is I've got old shoulders, old body, old legs , old...

We have some very capable people posting on here about difficult job situations and its really great reading that difficult as those situations have been they've coped remarkably well and dealt with them in a positive manner. People never lose that capability that they have, they just get more experience in dealing with difficult situations and become even better at their jobs.

 

[ToffeeDan]

Well I'm sure that performance will have cheered a few Reds up... as for us, well, back to the kiddies' easel for Bobby.

 

[wbn61]

what a shtty day that was yesterday. visit to the cemetery to commemorate the anniversary of my brothers death, watching that embarrassing shower last night and waiting for my oncologists results.
well sorry to say folks its terminal.
don't know what else to say. GOT has been a daily part of my life so just felt you all should know.

 

[l4toffee]

what a shtty day that was yesterday. visit to the cemetery to commemorate the anniversary of my brothers death, watching that embarrassing shower last night and waiting for my oncologists results.
well sorry to say folks its terminal.
don't know what else to say. GOT has been a daily part of my life so just felt you all should know.

so sorry to here that mate . Don't know what to say .

 

[MrPerfectNot]

what a shtty day that was yesterday. visit to the cemetery to commemorate the anniversary of my brothers death, watching that embarrassing shower last night and waiting for my oncologists results.
well sorry to say folks its terminal.
don't know what else to say. GOT has been a daily part of my life so just felt you all should know.

Well, hell.

 

[blueloon]

what a shtty day that was yesterday. visit to the cemetery to commemorate the anniversary of my brothers death, watching that embarrassing shower last night and waiting for my oncologists results.
well sorry to say folks its terminal.
don't know what else to say. GOT has been a daily part of my life so just felt you all should know.

A shitty day for you indeed mate and I don't really know what to say .This is a fantastic thread for providing information by people who are very knowledgeable about all kind of things and meets people's needs. Me , I have no specific specialist knowledge on depression etc, but sometimes the first two words of the title, "Discussion/help " are the most important if it helps to keep on posting.

 

[Peteinleeds]

Man city fan in peace , this is one of the greatest threads I have read and sums up the real passion and humanity of the average footy fan. I'm mr mood swing and always will be like city its in my dna and I make the most of the ups amidst recurring downs / bad memories. My job helps and I meet some great people , my Scouse uncle took me to my first City game , Joe Royle scored for us it seems like yesterday! . I wish you all well .

 

[COYBL25]

Man city fan in peace , this is one of the greatest threads I have read and sums up the real passion and humanity of the average footy fan. I'm mr mood swing and always will be like city its in my dna and I make the most of the ups amidst recurring downs / bad memories. My job helps and I meet some great people , my Scouse uncle took me to my first City game , Joe Royle scored for us it seems like yesterday! . I wish you all well .

Cheers mate. Please come on here whenever you want. All welcome on here no matter who they are or where they are from. We're all in this together, a problem shared and all that.

Ps - do the City fan sites not have anything similar ?

 

[Peteinleeds]

Thanks , bluemoon has its moments but nothing as detailed / honest as this one , there's great gallows humour City fans of my tender years can still moan yet
it's £35 for Real Madrid next week and a season ticket at £380 yet some days I miss the imperfections of Maine road and a wet night v Leeds , chips and gravy and the bus home!

 

[COYBL25]

Thanks , bluemoon has its moments but nothing as detailed / honest as this one , there's great gallows humour City fans of my tender years can still moan yet
it's £35 for Real Madrid next week and a season ticket at £380 yet some days I miss the imperfections of Maine road and a wet night v Leeds , chips and gravy and the bus home!

Had mates who lived by Maine Road and used to drink in - the Albert, just at the back of all the curry houses. Had some great times in there. Great mix, old West Indians, Irish and locals. Never ever got grief in there, loved the place and still go and have a pint if I'm in Manchester . A trip to the old ground certainly was lively, especially for night games !

Any of your fans need any help mate and don't want to use what's available on yours, tell to come on here, it's a truly wonderful site and does some great work especially for fellas who wouldn't normally open up and ask for help.

Cheers.

 

[Deleted member 28206]

@wbn61 mate that's absolutely heartbreaking. There is nothing I can say here to convey the sentiment.

 

[kithnou]

what a shtty day that was yesterday. visit to the cemetery to commemorate the anniversary of my brothers death, watching that embarrassing shower last night and waiting for my oncologists results.
well sorry to say folks its terminal.
don't know what else to say. GOT has been a daily part of my life so just felt you all should know.

well fcuk....

 

[COYBL25]

what a shtty day that was yesterday. visit to the cemetery to commemorate the anniversary of my brothers death, watching that embarrassing shower last night and waiting for my oncologists results.
well sorry to say folks its terminal.
don't know what else to say. GOT has been a daily part of my life so just felt you all should know.

How's things today mate ?

 

[wbn61]

confusing lol. my youngest son didn't take it to well so went for a pint with him. to cut a long story short loads of the family turned up and some friends so we had my wake lol. good but weird night.

sorry forgot to put it as a reply coybl

 

[COYBL25]

confusing lol. my youngest son didn't take it to well so went for a pint with him. to cut a long story short loads of the family turned up and some friends so we had my wake lol. good but weird night.

A good mate of mine got diagnosed with an aggressive terminal cancer when he was a relatively young man and he lived well past the prognosis. He was a realist but also and eternal optimist if that makes sense. His missus had a little girl past his prognosis date, she conceived before all his treatment began .This is going to sound a bit hippyish, but he changed his diet massively to all these so called " super foods ". He swore that they helped. He still loved his ale though !
Don't do what he did though and kick the MacMillan girls into touch. They really are brilliant and will really help your family as much as they can. Please keep posting on here, I know we can't change anything, but at least you can talk about things that maybe you don't feel comfortable talking to your family about. Also please feel free to PM with anything at all that you want to talk about off the books so to speak.

Ps - sedatives will help you massively mate, they'll help ease some of the feat and anxiety .The McMillan girls ahould discuss them with you.